Fireinfolding
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I surely wasnt saying humilty doesnt apply to women but the OP is about the men, and the role of men as head of their wives. This is compared with Christ and the church as the comparison is made.
Ephes 5:23 For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body.
Ephes 5:24 Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in every thing.
Its to that I am posting to.
Gotta start somewheres. I have bumped into many men who believe they too our MY head and Im like, "look buddy, I have one head my OWN husband (who is confused enough, who is also not a believer) I have to deal with) I dont need a bunch of other heads
And so I chose my little mate, I woud never have married an overbearing, dominant, lording over son of a gun, and I have no problem with having a REFUGE to being obedient to my OWN husband (verses any of them)
In his own little unbeliever way, He does love me as himself, because just as he would hate someone lording over him, he certainly doesnt do any such thing to me. So his love is not expressed towards me by having a power trip over me, I dont see how love expressing itself that way is really love, otherwise Jesus would say, see how others exercise dominion over others?... "Go and do likewise"
Ephes 5:23 For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body.
Ephes 5:24 Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in every thing.
Its to that I am posting to.
Gotta start somewheres. I have bumped into many men who believe they too our MY head and Im like, "look buddy, I have one head my OWN husband (who is confused enough, who is also not a believer) I have to deal with) I dont need a bunch of other heads
And so I chose my little mate, I woud never have married an overbearing, dominant, lording over son of a gun, and I have no problem with having a REFUGE to being obedient to my OWN husband (verses any of them)
In his own little unbeliever way, He does love me as himself, because just as he would hate someone lording over him, he certainly doesnt do any such thing to me. So his love is not expressed towards me by having a power trip over me, I dont see how love expressing itself that way is really love, otherwise Jesus would say, see how others exercise dominion over others?... "Go and do likewise"
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