Making a move question.

awb1989 · May 30, 2012

If you see someone that you want to talk to do you make a move or do you put it in God's hands to make it for you? Reason I ask is today I went to get a haircut and ended up running into a very pretty girl there. We were both looking at each other via the mirror so I felt I should maybe make a move. I didn't lol but I am just curious as to what you all think. When I say move I just simply mean introduce myself. I don't make a smooth move or anything lol

FlyingLeadChange · May 30, 2012

I would think you don't need a direct command from God to say hello to someone and introduce yourself. At the point of considering a serious relationship, sure. But you're probably on safe ground being a generally friendly and sociable person.

memoriesbymichelle · May 30, 2012

Yeah, I mean consider God put her in your eye sight maybe . Introducing yourself or saying Hi does not need a voice from Heaven so to speak.

Thunder Peel · May 30, 2012

I got excited because I thought this said, "Making a Movie Thread". I need to sleep more.

anewday · May 30, 2012

Thunder Peel said:
I got excited because I thought this said, "Making a Movie Thread". I need to sleep more.

Yeah I thought that's what it read too . God made enough of a move by placing you two in the same place at the same time. Next time this happens make a move .

avi8tor · May 30, 2012

anewday said:
God made enough of a move by placing you two in the same place at the same time. Next time this happens make a move .

True that! If it's right there in front of you then take some initiative.

tangled · May 30, 2012

awb1989 said:
If you see someone that you want to talk to do you make a move or do you put it in God's hands to make it for you?

Either way, it's in God's hands...

A man's heart plans his way but the LORD directs his steps.
Proverbs 16:9

You thought about "making a move" but you didn't because God didn't direct your steps in that direction...

Blank123 · May 30, 2012

Thunder Peel said:
I got excited because I thought this said, "Making a Movie Thread". I need to sleep more.

thats what I read too.

If you want to talk to someone, talk.

If you wait and nothing happens... you only have yourself to blame.

SnowyMacie · May 30, 2012

Thunder Peel said:
I got excited because I thought this said, "Making a Movie Thread". I need to sleep more.

I read that as well.

If this was the lady cutting your hair, she was probably just being friendly. Getting your haircut is kind of an awkward experience (at least for me) and conversation eases that. Certain people have chemistry with others and some they don't, that doesn't really mean anything other than those two people will get along easier and conversations will flow better.

MehGuy · May 30, 2012

awb1989 said:
If you see someone that you want to talk to do you make a move or do you put it in God's hands to make it for you? Reason I ask is today I went to get a haircut and ended up running into a very pretty girl there. We were both looking at each other via the mirror so I felt I should maybe make a move. I didn't lol but I am just curious as to what you all think. When I say move I just simply mean introduce myself. I don't make a smooth move or anything lol

She just might be a friendly person, check to see if she acts similar to other customers.

Boondock_Saint · May 30, 2012

awb1989 said:
If you see someone that you want to talk to do you make a move or do you put it in God's hands to make it for you? Reason I ask is today I went to get a haircut and ended up running into a very pretty girl there. We were both looking at each other via the mirror so I felt I should maybe make a move. I didn't lol but I am just curious as to what you all think. When I say move I just simply mean introduce myself. I don't make a smooth move or anything lol

Salvation is in the Lord.
Whether or not a kiss lands on your cheek depends upon you.

Megablue · May 30, 2012

I think if you see someone you'd like to talk to, you just need to talk to them. Do you expect God to tell you what to do before you choose anything for yourself? Do you expect him to pick out your clothes in the morning and tell you were to go and what to do for the day? This situation is really no different than any of those except that for most people the decision to go over and say hello is more difficult to make. Waiting for a sign from God to tell you to talk to the person would likely mean you're not going to talk to a lot of people. Now if something starts to develop with the girl, and it starts to become a serious relationship, that's when I'd start asking God for help with the situation. Before that perhaps the conversation with God might be asking for enough courage to go over to introduce myself.

awb1989 · Jun 1, 2012

Right on! Sorta what I was hoping to hear ha. Thanks all!

MacFall · Jun 1, 2012

I don't introduce myself to strangers without a good (by which I mean, not contrived) reason.

tangled · Jun 1, 2012

awb1989 said:
Right on! Sorta what I was hoping to hear ha. Thanks all!

Good attitude...

aloou · Jun 1, 2012

MacFall said:
I don't introduce myself to strangers without a good (by which I mean, not contrived) reason.

I was that way until I moved down south now I have no choice! These people are all up in your bizz!

Socktastic · Jun 1, 2012

I introduce myself to strangers because they are unknown to me and I desire to at least find out their name.
Hurrah for strangers.

aloou · Jun 1, 2012

memoriesbymichelle said:
Yeah, I mean consider God put her in your eye sight maybe . Introducing yourself or saying Hi does not need a voice from Heaven so to speak.

true!

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