Major rough patch with my long time girlfriend!

[BFDM-KEVIN]

Dear brothers & sisters,

i've been with my girl since 08 till now.

we broke up for 5 months in 2011 and got back on the last day of that year.

recently, things have been really rough and i'm really getting dented up badly in my spirit.

she claims that she does not see us going anywhere.

i'm really confused because a dear servant of God has prophesied to us and said that : Don't worry about these trials and tests you have in your life. God is allowing them. The Lord will make you both an encouragement to other couples. The Lord will have us do his work and we will be sent around to different places.

in 2010 when we broke up , that was the first night i attended my cell group.

Please pray for our relationship to be taken care of by God almighty!

I asked God for signs which i do see but its her words and body language that does not tally... (it must be faith which is needed here & not our natural senses)

i must say that i also want the girl that God wants me to have and i hope its her. all the odds are against me but nothing is impossible for our God. Things are getting so difficult, i do feel spiritual warfare!

i'm also worried that i'm not getting any younger and i wish to settle down soon. But i do know that God's timing is perfect so thats a relief and perhaps a reason to rejoice!

I am sorry God that im worried over this, do forgive me. i love her and she means a lot to me.

Thanks to everyone for hearing me out, i need to get this off my chest.

Shalom brothers & sisters!

 

[servant of Merciful Love]

May God bless you

 

[Linus]

Praying for your relationship, for guidance, wisdom, comfort and peace in the name of Jesus Christ. Thank You Lord!

 

[BFDM-KEVIN]

Thanks people =)

 

[liars_paradox]

I changed my post. I am sorry for criticizing you. For you, your problems are big. And, it is still important to you that your relationship work out for you. We don't always think about everyone else in the world when we have problems of our own.

I prayed to God that He get you through your break up with your girlfriend if it's for the best and if it isn't then He somehow have you two get back together.

I shouldn't criticize you when I myself have problems that aren't as bad as others. Yet, I still worry for myself.

 

[liars_paradox]

I hate how fake most Christians are.


Oh, by the way, my name doesn't mean that I am a liar. I'm actually a pretty honest guy. Mostly because I suck at lying anyways, so I hardly ever lie.

I had to explain that one, because most people on this forum are uneducated and ignorant and have no clue what a liar's paradox is.

 

[ninzae]

You don't get saved by baptism and going to church. You only get saved when you accept Jesus as your lord and saviour.

I am sorry to hear that you have to go through this rejection. Praying for you.

 

[ninzae]

Dear brothers & sisters,

i've been with my girl since 08 till now.

we broke up for 5 months in 2011 and got back on the last day of that year.

recently, things have been really rough and i'm really getting dented up badly in my spirit.

she claims that she does not see us going anywhere.

i'm really confused because a dear servant of God has prophesied to us and said that : Don't worry about these trials and tests you have in your life. God is allowing them. The Lord will make you both an encouragement to other couples. The Lord will have us do his work and we will be sent around to different places.

in 2010 when we broke up , that was the first night i attended my cell group.

Please pray for our relationship to be taken care of by God almighty!

I asked God for signs which i do see but its her words and body language that does not tally... (it must be faith which is needed here & not our natural senses)

i must say that i also want the girl that God wants me to have and i hope its her. all the odds are against me but nothing is impossible for our God. Things are getting so difficult, i do feel spiritual warfare!

i'm also worried that i'm not getting any younger and i wish to settle down soon. But i do know that God's timing is perfect so thats a relief and perhaps a reason to rejoice!

I am sorry God that im worried over this, do forgive me. i love her and she means a lot to me.

Thanks to everyone for hearing me out, i need to get this off my chest.

Shalom brothers & sisters!

When a woman says that she does not see you guys going anywhere then believe her. As painful as it is, accept the reality and move on.

As for the prophecy, ask God for more confirmation about it. Not to burst your bubble but I have gotten a prophecies too about my ex bf. It's been 4yrs and we are not back together. And I don't think we will ever be.

Praying for you.

 

[liars_paradox]

You don't get saved by baptism and going to church. You only get saved when you accept Jesus as your lord and saviour.

I am sorry to hear that you have to go through this rejection. Praying for you.

Can you remove my quote from your post, please? You can keep what you said, but remove what I said, because I ended up changing it.

Right, I already did accept him as my savior, but I read on the internet that I also need to join a church and get baptized.

Here's a quote from an online article which says that church membership and baptism are mandatory for salvation:

Thus, the Bible answer to the question, "Is church membership essential to salvation?", is "Yes!". Indeed, membership in the Lord's church is, for Christians, unavoidable.

source: Is Church Membership Essential to my salvation?

 

[liars_paradox]

When a woman says that she does not see you guys going anywhere then believe her. As painful as it is, accept the reality and move on.

As for the prophecy, ask God for more confirmation about it. Not to burst your bubble but I have gotten a prophecies too about my ex bf. It's been 4yrs and we are not back together. And I don't think we will ever be.

Praying for you.

Can I ask you what kind of church do you go to where people actually make prophesies? This is not traditional Christianity is it? This Christian Primitivism, isn't it? Where people speak in tongues and make prophesies, right?

I know that early Christians did this, but I am skeptical of these kinds of churches. If someone was a real prophet, then his prophecy should come true no matter what. If it really was a message from God, then it will inevitably become true.

Yet, if someone says it's a prophesy but that prophesy turns out false, then we can safely say that God never said this, right?

I'm sorry if I offend you. I'm not trying to attack your faith, but I don't get what people see in these kinds of churches. I would be upset if I honestly believed that God gave me a prophesy that turned out to be false. That's why I wouldn't trust someone who told me that they were a prophet.

When God told Abraham, Moses, or any of his real prophets something was going to happen, it always did happen even if it wasn't how they expected it to turn out. But, so many people now a days think that they can be prophets too, it seems ridiculous to me. I think that in order for someone to become a real prophet that they need to be someone of exceptional faith. Like, only one out of a billion people will ever become real prophets of God.

And, I'm sorry if I offend anyone these are just my opinions, please understand that I am not trying to attack anyone's faith.

 

[ForeverHopeful]

Praying for your relationship, for guidance, wisdom, comfort and peace in the name of Jesus Christ. Thank You Lord!

Praying in agreement with this loving prayer. It is best to pray for God's will for he knows AND wants what is BEST for you. He sees the bigger picture and has a great plan for you. You are right to pray and trust in God for guidance. Thank you Father for joining us in prayer and for all you do, Amen

 

[REPHAIAHPEDAHEL]

All is well in Jesus' Name Amen.

 

[liars_paradox]

Praying in agreement with this loving prayer. It is best to pray for God's will for he knows AND wants what is BEST for you. He sees the bigger picture and has a great plan for you. You are right to pray and trust in God for guidance. Thank you Father for joining us in prayer and for all you do, Amen

Linus' prayers are usually good.

 

[LoricaLady]

You are not sure if she is the right one for you. (After all this time, if you have doubts...it seems maybe she is not?) Perhaps she is sensing that. She might feel like you just want her to be there for you, but that you aren't willing to commit. Also, I don't know, of course, if she is the right one for you or not. Praying you will be given wisdom, insight and guidance.

 

[MauiMamma]

Dear brothers & sisters,

i've been with my girl since 08 till now.

we broke up for 5 months in 2011 and got back on the last day of that year.

recently, things have been really rough and i'm really getting dented up badly in my spirit.

she claims that she does not see us going anywhere.

i'm really confused because a dear servant of God has prophesied to us and said that : Don't worry about these trials and tests you have in your life. God is allowing them. The Lord will make you both an encouragement to other couples. The Lord will have us do his work and we will be sent around to different places.

in 2010 when we broke up , that was the first night i attended my cell group.

Please pray for our relationship to be taken care of by God almighty!

I asked God for signs which i do see but its her words and body language that does not tally... (it must be faith which is needed here & not our natural senses)

i must say that i also want the girl that God wants me to have and i hope its her. all the odds are against me but nothing is impossible for our God. Things are getting so difficult, i do feel spiritual warfare!

i'm also worried that i'm not getting any younger and i wish to settle down soon. But i do know that God's timing is perfect so thats a relief and perhaps a reason to rejoice!

I am sorry God that im worried over this, do forgive me. i love her and she means a lot to me.

Thanks to everyone for hearing me out, i need to get this off my chest.

Shalom brothers & sisters!

Praying

 

[child630]