I showed a video for an ethical issue in class one day, this one on Vietnamese mail order brides:Most of the class did not consider the business to be unethical. If anything, I think the sales pitch was perhaps borderline unethical. The man in the video is speaking Chinese a lot so the girls probably don't understand what he said when he asked if they would marry a 60 year old.
Singapore is a very interesting place, a predominantly ethnic Chinese, very well organized, economically developed city-state with somewhat 'modern' attitudes close to two predominatly Islamic developing countries with conservative social values. I can see why this industry exists in Singapore. The government is concerned with the lack of children being born due to people marrying late. A lot of women are very career minded. There are cultures there that have a strong history of arranged marriages. The Vietnamese village women they recruit for these matchmaking agencies are known for being very domestically inclined with a desire for families and children.
Apparently, in Vietnam, there are places a foreign man can go and meet one young woman in her late teens or early twenties after another. He interviews her through an interpreter. If the man chooses a woman she likes and she agrees, they get married on the spot and some company makes money from selling the travel package, the introductions, or the wedding party, or some combination.
I was wondering if anyone wanted to discuss the ethics of this sort of mail order bride type business. As far as Christians go, I don't see how this would be a sinful thing to do as long as both parties are followers of Christ. I don't know that it is necessarily a wise thing to do, especially since the matchmaker set up can eliminate some of the normal safe-guards for arranged marriages like families and parents interviewing everyone involved, giving advice, and weeding out the duds.
<http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FScBxMqC9cI>
Singapore is a very interesting place, a predominantly ethnic Chinese, very well organized, economically developed city-state with somewhat 'modern' attitudes close to two predominatly Islamic developing countries with conservative social values. I can see why this industry exists in Singapore. The government is concerned with the lack of children being born due to people marrying late. A lot of women are very career minded. There are cultures there that have a strong history of arranged marriages. The Vietnamese village women they recruit for these matchmaking agencies are known for being very domestically inclined with a desire for families and children.
Apparently, in Vietnam, there are places a foreign man can go and meet one young woman in her late teens or early twenties after another. He interviews her through an interpreter. If the man chooses a woman she likes and she agrees, they get married on the spot and some company makes money from selling the travel package, the introductions, or the wedding party, or some combination.
I was wondering if anyone wanted to discuss the ethics of this sort of mail order bride type business. As far as Christians go, I don't see how this would be a sinful thing to do as long as both parties are followers of Christ. I don't know that it is necessarily a wise thing to do, especially since the matchmaker set up can eliminate some of the normal safe-guards for arranged marriages like families and parents interviewing everyone involved, giving advice, and weeding out the duds.
<http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FScBxMqC9cI>
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