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  • CF has always been a site that welcomes people from different backgrounds and beliefs to participate in discussion and even debate. That is the nature of its ministry. In view of recent events emotions are running very high. We need to remind people of some basic principles in debating on this site. We need to be civil when we express differences in opinion. No personal attacks. Avoid you, your statements. Don't characterize an entire political party with comparisons to Fascism or Communism or other extreme movements that committed atrocities. CF is not the place for broad brush or blanket statements about groups and political parties. Put the broad brushes and blankets away when you come to CF, better yet, put them in the incinerator. Debate had no place for them. We need to remember that people that commit acts of violence represent themselves or a small extreme faction.

Magical thinking or delusional thinking?

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In encouraging folks to keep building, we need to give them the freedom to experience the emotions that are a part of that building process. I've noticed that a child (at whatever age) usually reaches a point where he concludes that his mentors had adopted and taught some misinformation. It's pretty common for such a child to experience a variety of emotions as he processes this conclusion. In fact, in cases where the family was more passionately connected to its teachings, the child may experience some rather intense emotions. That child needs our love and understanding as he keeps building. That child needs an opportunity to be specific as he discusses the ideas he is processing. That child needs us to be patient with the time and courage it takes to keep building.

It's a great point and it's important to remember those on the sidelines. We may also need to remember that those on the sidelines may not have had the same experiences and they may not really understand everything that is expressed.
Thank you for this post, BFA. I appreciate both what you said and the way you expressed it. I think compassion is good for us all!
 
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Thank you for this post, BFA. I appreciate both what you said and the way you expressed it. I think compassion is good for us all!

I agree. My post focused on one group of people. There are other groups for whom we should have similar compassion.

BFA
 
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