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Made A Huge Mistake

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Crusader_4_Christ

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I made a huge mistake. I met this girl online named Rebecca Ek. At first we were just friends talking and chit chatting away. After 2 months of this I decided to meet her. I knew she wasn't a christian yet I was convinced I could change this. That it wouldn't effect our relationship.

Well 7000 miles later. I'm here in Sweden. I went out with her on 3 dates and it hasn't worked out. I admit I've done things wrong....including acting arrogantly towards her. Like not giving a warm hello when i first met her at the train station. She told me she was bothered by this and that the main reason why she doesn't like me anymore. It's true sometimes i have a tendency to act more important than i am and belittle others.

I really love her...and even though we haven't got along these feelings for her still remain deep in my heart. Please ask God to forgive me for thinking I could change her without his help. Pray that it works out between me and her.
 

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I'm reminded of a friend in church who gave a testimony to one of his children and totally blew it. He prayed to God and asked for another chance and told God he wouldn't blow it this time. Sure enough God presented him another chance and his child accepted Christ. :bow: Praise God! Thank you Jesus! Perhaps you could pray and ask for another chance. I would, however, remember if you are given a second chance you might not blow it, but it still requires action on the other part. At least you would be left knowing you gave it everything with no regrets on your part. At best your prayers would be answered. It's a no lose situation if you can see it that way. I'd like to pray for you.

Father God, most awesome and forgiving. We come here to pray today for this young person who has recognized an error and wants so bad to try again. You are truly the Father of second chances. You tell us to trust in you. I do. I'm praying for a second chance for this person, God willing. Only you God knows your plan for these two. I pray you reach down and touch these two with your graceful and forgiving touch with exactly what you know is needed here. Be it understanding, forgiveness, whatever. We know that whatever the touch may be it will be perfect. That we can know absolutely. Father God, thank you for who you are. :bow: Praise God, Thank you Jesus!

I love you God
Ilove you Jesus

in Jesus name, amen
 
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Please do not act better than others. Most intelligent people know you are covering up insecurites. Christ Jesus is the only human that could act better, but He chose not to. He humbled himself, to honor God the Father. It is also a risk traveling 7000 miles away to meet someone. Use your money wisely and also your time. Christ Jesus is coming back soon, as I'm sure you can feel. I will pray for you today.
 
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