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tall73

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Thank you. I added obesity. inappropriate content is already on the list. I Added masturbation under other sexual attachments.
 
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You included depression, but I'd add mental health issues more broadly (generalised anxiety, PTSD, etc etc). Also stuff to do with pregnancy and childbirth; and if the wife is breastfeeding, that can create both physical and mental/emotional issues.

Thank you. I replaced depression with a mental health bullet point, and included child birth and nursing, etc.
 
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I Added masturbation under other sexual attachments.

It's bad for the spirit. Usually leads to looking at nasty magazines and movies -- once again bad for the spirit.

If we keep sinning we can destroy the conscience.

M-Bob
 
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Usually leads to looking at nasty magazines and movies
Tall probably isn't interested in this becoming a debate (nor am I).....but this is a slippery slope fallacy (but to keep it on topic - it can be a way to avoid intimacy with a spouse).
 
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Maybe something that needs to be stressed here if any couples are dealing with any issues within their relationship and can't work it out, it is best to go to a qualified counselor in real life and not be led astray by any Internet advice.

It is best to get off the computer, find a qualified marital counselor or otherwise certified psychologist and deal with it one-on-one in real life with a qualified professional.

Or go to your pastor.

Don't do the guesswork, if there is an issue, go to someone trained in this in real life.

All good things
Emmy
 
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Going to a counselor can certainly help. There often has to be a conversation discussing the problem before everyone is willing to go to a counselor.

Again, this is not an internet fix-all, or a substitute for medical or psychological advice. It is a way to start discussion, leading to finding answers.

if any couples are dealing with any issues within their relationship and can't work it out,

Some couples can work it out once they are aware of the problem, and sometimes looking at possible factors help with that.

Certainly get counseling if you cannot work it out.
 
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