I've heard from Christians incessantly that those who are unloveable don't deserve their love (as well as time, efforts, etc.).
That if you're constantly miserable, cynical, depressed, etc. to be around then no wonder Christians don't want anything to do with you, that you deserve to be rejected.
Essentially Christians can just pick and choose who they want to love. The issue I have with this is that it contradicts what the Bible says! This is what I read in the NT yesterday about it....
Matthew 5:43-48.
Love for Enemies
43 “You have heard that it was said, ‘Love your neighbor[i] and hate your enemy.’ 44 But I tell you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, 45 that you may be children of your Father in heaven. He causes his sun to rise on the evil and the good, and sends rain on the righteous and the unrighteous. 46 If you love those who love you, what reward will you get? Are not even the tax collectors doing that? 47 And if you greet only your own people, what are you doing more than others? Do not even pagans do that? 48 Be perfect, therefore, as your heavenly Father is perfect.
This isn't in any shape or form saying that people can just act and think however they want, and don't have to be accountable for their actions and/or speech.
Jesus even says that if you only love those who love you, you're no better than the secular world.
It sounds cliche, but those who are unloveable are the ones who deserve love the most. Jesus also said that it's not the healthy who need a doctor, but the sick. This is about salvation, but I believe it can apply to loving others as well.
That if you're constantly miserable, cynical, depressed, etc. to be around then no wonder Christians don't want anything to do with you, that you deserve to be rejected.
Essentially Christians can just pick and choose who they want to love. The issue I have with this is that it contradicts what the Bible says! This is what I read in the NT yesterday about it....
Matthew 5:43-48.
Love for Enemies
43 “You have heard that it was said, ‘Love your neighbor[i] and hate your enemy.’ 44 But I tell you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, 45 that you may be children of your Father in heaven. He causes his sun to rise on the evil and the good, and sends rain on the righteous and the unrighteous. 46 If you love those who love you, what reward will you get? Are not even the tax collectors doing that? 47 And if you greet only your own people, what are you doing more than others? Do not even pagans do that? 48 Be perfect, therefore, as your heavenly Father is perfect.
This isn't in any shape or form saying that people can just act and think however they want, and don't have to be accountable for their actions and/or speech.
Jesus even says that if you only love those who love you, you're no better than the secular world.
It sounds cliche, but those who are unloveable are the ones who deserve love the most. Jesus also said that it's not the healthy who need a doctor, but the sick. This is about salvation, but I believe it can apply to loving others as well.