In John 13:34-35 Jesus commanded us to love one another: in this way, all men will recognize his disciples.
In Luke 14:26 he says though that you cannot be his disciple unless you hate your father and mother, your siblings, your children, your wife.
[34] A new commandment I give unto you, That ye love one another; as I have loved you, that ye also love one another.
[35] By this shall all men know that ye are my disciples, if ye have love one to another.
In Luke 14:26 he says though that you cannot be his disciple unless you hate your father and mother, your siblings, your children, your wife.
[26] If any man come to me, and hate not his father, and mother, and wife, and children, and brethren, and sisters, yea, and his own life also, he cannot be my disciple.