Losing Interest

[Inperfected]

Anyways... I am starting to like someone else who lives across the country!!!

That is not the way to do it. I would be furious with you if I was him.

For goodness sake have pity on the man and end it with him. You are being unfair to think of another man whist you are STILL in a relationship

AND WARNING: Rebounding will only lead to heart break, you need to deal with your past relationships first.

 

[California Dreamin']

I am not in a relationship and not looking for another.

 

[Inperfected]

Ok......... I had assumed the reason you wrote this post was cos you were confused about your relationship, even though you didn't DIRECTLY state that. Secondly, then why this comment if you aren't looking for another " Anyways... I am starting to like someone else who lives across the country!!!"

 

[California Dreamin']

I only like him. I don't want a relationship long distance.

 

[robalan]

Ok......... I had assumed the reason you wrote this post was cos you were confused about your relationship, even though you didn't DIRECTLY state that. Secondly, then why this comment if you aren't looking for another " Anyways... I am starting to like someone else who lives across the country!!!"

I'm already in a relationship with someone who live 1/2 way across the country. We've been talking for over one year now. Gosh. It can be so frustrating at times.

 

[Tuffguy]

My question to you is,,, how did you get interested? LOL

 

[plum]

I am not in a relationship and not looking for another.

ok that's just confusing, the premise of the thread was to ask for help with a current relationship... and now you say you're not in one.

ok nevermind then glad it worked out for you somehow

 

[Mrs. Enigma]

To O.P.:


Doesn't sound like a keeper.

 

[California Dreamin']

I had an LDR before... not wanting to really go that route again... I'm not really looking. We went to the same high school but he moved to Alberta for work... if something does happen I'd be happy because he does have the qualities I like in someone!!!!!!!!! I used to think that I *had* to have a boyfriend... lost that idea though... I am really focused on my job.

 

[ashley lynne]

So, technically, you two aren't "together"?
The fact that he just disappears out of thin air, doesn't call you, doesn't send e-mails if something's wrong, is a huge sign of immaturity. You're considered his girlfriend, correct? Then he should be calling you tell you things...like his computer needs to be reformatted. Some guys just take longer to grow up than others, and some guys just plain old don't want to grow up.
If you feel like you're losing interst, then end it. Focing the relationship is only going to make things hurt worse in the end.
You said y'all have been friends since your early teen years, so keep that relationship.
That's my $0.02 worth. It's all your decision in the end. You're in my prayers.

 

[California Dreamin']

Yeah, it is definitely over. He is the SAME guy I knew when I was 14 except he wears jeans and sports jerseys everyday (it was sweatpants then). We work at the same place, they don't allow sweatpants.

 

[Inperfected]

So were you ever together?

And if not

The fact that he just disappears out of thin air, doesn't call you, doesn't send e-mails if something's wrong, is a huge sign of immaturity.

the above quote isn't exactly true... It could be a sign of the fact that you AREN'T tpgether, so you should expect any of those benefits listed.

 

[The Julikenz]

My old best friend / previous SO had (and still has ) that disease.

Hate to be blunt: He is untrustworthy and irresponsible. He does not respect nor value you as you deserve to be.

RE: the teeth thing.

Gross.