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LOoking forward to forty!

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Do you know this is such a good question because now that I'm 3 months shy of turning 40 I've been so negative!

The only thing I could come up with right now was the prospect of being able to sneak into the 40's area of the forum (even though I'm SO going to miss you guys here). :D
 
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Do you know this is such a good question because now that I'm 3 months shy of turning 40 I've been so negative!

The only thing I could come up with right now was the prospect of being able to sneak into the 40's area of the forum (even though I'm SO going to miss you guys here). :D
Thanks LotusPetal for posting. We'll miss you, but some of us will catch you there. What are you looking forward to in your 40's? Any goals, plans?
 
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Hi sampa,

Goals & Plans - to be my own boss and SAHM before my mid-forties. I've taken a leap of faith by leaving a permanent job to pursue this. But I feel that this is the way forward since life seems so short now. :)
 
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Personally I was thrilled to turn 30 and I look forward to 40 and 50.
Yes I'm strange lol. The history, the wisdom, all those experiences of life... wow!!

The only drawback is that I've noticed my body does not respond as well as it used to.
 
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im not liking it, it suddenly hit me today its only five years away now, im a bit scared
Happy Birthday Puppy, sorry your down about it. I hope you can find something to look forward to.
In Christ, Sampa
 
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Personally I was thrilled to turn 30 and I look forward to 40 and 50.
Yes I'm strange lol. The history, the wisdom, all those experiences of life... wow!!

The only drawback is that I've noticed my body does not respond as well as it used to.
Jolie Heart, I think that yes, we have something to look forward to.
50 is the new 40 and 60 is the new 50.

My mom is 54 and just competed against (in an 8k) a 22 year old a few weeks back. He beat her only by 15 seconds and got 1st place for his age category.

I just read some articles today from these 90 year olds, it's the new 80. But the only problem is they wish they could move around and do the things they used to, instead of just crossword puzzles and knitting. I'm not sure I want to go onto that age, but it sure makes me appreciate where I'm at.
 
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I loved turning 30. The age thing didn't really hit me until this year when I turned 35. It's just really weird because I still feel like a kid sometimes.

Yeah I will be 35 in 2009 but
Really age is just a number! IMHO!
 
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