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Hentenza

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I was a Christian for the first 22 years of my life and even attended seminary for one year. I then became disillusioned with Christianity and became first an agnostic and then a full blown atheist. I was happy being an atheist.

So you became an atheist after being a Christian for 22 years? I thought you had just said that was impossible.

Which arguments convinced you to become an atheist? Why do you no longer think those arguments are valid?
 
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We can go real deep here but then the truth only lies between you and Jesus. I can only steer you to the truth of scripture.
 
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No arguments convinced me of either. My deconversion (if you can even call it that) was due to my own immaturity and pride. My returning to God was of no doing of my own.

I see. You "deconverted" due to immaturity, not because of the strength of any argument? I deconverted because of the perceived strengths of the arguments I was hearing. So it appears our deconversions were very different.
 
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I see. You "deconverted" due to immaturity, not because of the strength of any argument? I deconverted because of the perceived strengths of the arguments I was hearing. So it appears our deconversions were very different.

Not really. I didn't know better and you just think you know better.
 
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Not really. I didn't know better and you just think you know better.

Oh, I see, so I just think the arguments that deconverted me were good, but you know they were not good?

How can you be so sure that those arguments were not good if you don't know which arguments I heard? Don't you first need to ask me what arguments I am referring to, before you tell me those arguments were not good?
 
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I have no intentions of asking you what they are.
 
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I have no intentions of asking you what they are.

I see, you have no intention to ask me what arguments I heard that caused my deconversion?

They might have been good arguments.
 
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All is possible with God. It's been nice talking with you. I pray that you find the answers that you seek.
 
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All is possible with God. It's been nice talking with you. I pray that you find the answers that you seek.

If all things are possible, then why do you infer that it is not possible for people who believe that death ends all to have hope? If all things are possible, perhaps it is possible to believe we are mortals, and yet find hope in life.

And if you can have hope and I can have hope, then what is wrong with seeking a place where folks like us can discuss our differing hopes?
 
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I'll be happy to give you an answer for the hope that I have but I won't debate it with you.

Correct In fact, a person wanting to debate such a thing is truly, truly missing the point of basic human decency and respect. Maybe we should re-name it secular inhumanism?
 
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the answers I hear seem so feeble in comparison with what I have learned in recent years. I was looking for a place to compare what I have learned with the answers that are commonly given by Christians.

You can do that, right here, in this very sub-forum. It is the best place on CF for it, IMHO. That doesn't equal a debate though. Asking honest questions is well within our parameters here, and part of honest questioning is follow up questions that can do exactly what you describe here. With passion even.

The real line of demarcation is, are you asking questions, or creating a platform to "preach your own gospel?" I trust you can understand one is within our purposes here, while the other is not. Also, what makes this best place for it is other non-believers aren't supposed to post. This prevents your questions from getting splintered, and our responses from getting too long, off topic and time consuming.

Oh good, so you agree that the unbeliever may have something worthwhile to say?

So then it might be worthwhile to have a dialog, with the Christian listening to the worthwhile things that the unbeliever says, and vice versa?

You bet. To truly question, this is part of the process. And also to truly answer. Just observe the above line of demarcation, that's all.
 
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What is wrong with a hope that leads to a fulfilling life here and now, and then one day ends? That sounds appealing to me.

You have every right to be interested in that, but you cannot compare it to the merits of Christianity as you say you want to. It's apples to oranges. This type of comparison any Christian should concede to you, as the Bible clearly teaches.
If existence went on forever, would our lives not eventually fall into a repetitious rut?

You're answering your own objections. You have nothing valid to say about Christianity, because your observations aren't about God Himself. Your question here reveals that much. This was apparently the part that was missing from your Christianity, which is why you fell away. W/o Him, it just doesn't work. And with Him, your boredom scenario has no place.
 
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