hello all,
I was hoping you guys would give me your insight.
so i'm 18 at the moment,
at uni (freshmen) doing a double degree that takes 5 years (if i don't fail any units)
at the end of the 5 years, i would have the opportunity to decide to which industry i would want to get into.
to simplify the choice, i will present two options.
one is to work in the public sector (working for the government) in public prosecutions. on paper, i would be home most weekends, work 39 hours a week (with anything above being overtime), and earn about $55k.
i would have 5 weeks paid leave a year.
the reality would be different as i'd be working alot of overtime, and most of it probably being 'unpaid' overtime. earning about $65k
life would be good, however i would assume i would find it a struggle to make ends meet, especially with children, due to the high cost of housing.
the other is to work in private practice, in 'top tier', or 'mid tier' firms.
i would probably be working 6 days a week, about 12-14 hours a day.
i would be earning the same figure presumably (55k) at the start, but it would increase to about $80-100k 5 years after i start working, with about $150k-200k as i become a senior associate, 10 years after first starting work.
of course i could burn out within months of employment, or when close to becoming an associate.
this is in contrast to about $100k after 10 years of working within the public sector.
life would be.... okay but i would have no trouble making ends meet (unless i take up a drug habit/become a gambler/). I would also be able to provide for my wife and children financially.
of course money will not buy happiness.
long hours would obviously be a negative effect if i choose the latter option, possibly ending in divorce/psychologically impacted children due to an emotionally absent father.
so should i not have children/not get married?
or perhaps i should get married at 30/35, where i would have become experienced in the industry, join a bontique firm, and thus cut the amount of hours i would work.
but i think the issue of lust would be tremendously detrimental.
I was hoping you guys would give me your insight.
so i'm 18 at the moment,
at uni (freshmen) doing a double degree that takes 5 years (if i don't fail any units)
at the end of the 5 years, i would have the opportunity to decide to which industry i would want to get into.
to simplify the choice, i will present two options.
one is to work in the public sector (working for the government) in public prosecutions. on paper, i would be home most weekends, work 39 hours a week (with anything above being overtime), and earn about $55k.
i would have 5 weeks paid leave a year.
the reality would be different as i'd be working alot of overtime, and most of it probably being 'unpaid' overtime. earning about $65k
life would be good, however i would assume i would find it a struggle to make ends meet, especially with children, due to the high cost of housing.
the other is to work in private practice, in 'top tier', or 'mid tier' firms.
i would probably be working 6 days a week, about 12-14 hours a day.
i would be earning the same figure presumably (55k) at the start, but it would increase to about $80-100k 5 years after i start working, with about $150k-200k as i become a senior associate, 10 years after first starting work.
of course i could burn out within months of employment, or when close to becoming an associate.
this is in contrast to about $100k after 10 years of working within the public sector.
life would be.... okay but i would have no trouble making ends meet (unless i take up a drug habit/become a gambler/). I would also be able to provide for my wife and children financially.
of course money will not buy happiness.
long hours would obviously be a negative effect if i choose the latter option, possibly ending in divorce/psychologically impacted children due to an emotionally absent father.
so should i not have children/not get married?
or perhaps i should get married at 30/35, where i would have become experienced in the industry, join a bontique firm, and thus cut the amount of hours i would work.
but i think the issue of lust would be tremendously detrimental.