We Have been married for two years and he has always been struggling with temptation. From what I remember, I don't think he told me about his problem until around the time we married.
We are currently living separately. We have been for 16 months and in June I will be moving to be with him.
There has been little accounts of problems here and there, but this one was most alarming:
There is a lady at the school he is attending and five months ago he told her that he was attracted to her. They were speaking to each other. He told her that he liked her. He told me that he thought she was beautiful. He told her that if he wasn't married that he'd consider her, but that they cannot talk.
It broke my heart. I didn't think he wanted to talk about it, he'd always change the subject or get upset. So I closed up.
He promised me after that night that he'd never speak to her, and since then I didn't hear any more about her until he visited me just a couple days ago and stayed for a while.
He said she was running after him and catching up with him to talk after classes, and that she was dating someone. She told him that she didn't care if she was already 'taken'. She was willing to cheat. She kept flirting and he said he flirted back. He said she was ugly, but well endowed...( I am not very big in the breast department) I bawled my eyes out. I told him I was angry, and that itd take a while to forgive him but he kept going on about how it isn't healthy to hold onto anger and that itd be better if I should just forgive him now. So I told him I forgave him......
He went back to OK. and his classes started again. He promised me again that he wont talk to her. I'm really nervous about him being there. I don't know how to sort my thoughts. I opened up as much as I could. But I don't know if he understands at all... I might sound rude but I want to beat some sense into that woman; but I also know that if my husband is pursuing her, its his fault as well. I'm nervous everyday now.... Its so hard to think. I'm nervous all day at work thinking about that...
We are currently living separately. We have been for 16 months and in June I will be moving to be with him.
There has been little accounts of problems here and there, but this one was most alarming:
There is a lady at the school he is attending and five months ago he told her that he was attracted to her. They were speaking to each other. He told her that he liked her. He told me that he thought she was beautiful. He told her that if he wasn't married that he'd consider her, but that they cannot talk.
It broke my heart. I didn't think he wanted to talk about it, he'd always change the subject or get upset. So I closed up.
He promised me after that night that he'd never speak to her, and since then I didn't hear any more about her until he visited me just a couple days ago and stayed for a while.
He said she was running after him and catching up with him to talk after classes, and that she was dating someone. She told him that she didn't care if she was already 'taken'. She was willing to cheat. She kept flirting and he said he flirted back. He said she was ugly, but well endowed...( I am not very big in the breast department) I bawled my eyes out. I told him I was angry, and that itd take a while to forgive him but he kept going on about how it isn't healthy to hold onto anger and that itd be better if I should just forgive him now. So I told him I forgave him......
He went back to OK. and his classes started again. He promised me again that he wont talk to her. I'm really nervous about him being there. I don't know how to sort my thoughts. I opened up as much as I could. But I don't know if he understands at all... I might sound rude but I want to beat some sense into that woman; but I also know that if my husband is pursuing her, its his fault as well. I'm nervous everyday now.... Its so hard to think. I'm nervous all day at work thinking about that...
