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......and it REALLY sucks! I mean just a couple days ago there was nothing I wanted more than the single life. Now though? Well... I'm flipping lonely! I really hate it because I thought I got past the whole "I want to date" barrier a LONG time ago! I know it sounds stupid but I hate having the desire to be in a relationship! I can't STAND the desire... it's so stupid! I mean who cares if girls like me or not right? I feel so weak.....
 
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hmmm I don't know what to think anymore about this. I have always been single and felt contented with that but now there is a thought in the back of my mind that I am freak for not ever being with someone. I don't know why but while I like being single I don't like it. It's weird. Sometimes though the thought of being with someone makes me feel ill maybe because I think that I deserve to be alone.
 
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You guys are still in your teens and 20s and you reckon you can be OVER wanting to date.....come on......I was in my first marriage for 17 yrs, was 38 yrs old and STILL needed to be loved and made special. Thankfully I found a wonderful man and married again when I was 40, he was 54....Trust me, you need love all you life...you guys are just beginning your lives. Be patient...it will happen !!! And it's just as exciting and wonderful when you're 40 as when you're 20..
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You guys are still in your teens and 20s and you reckon you can be OVER wanting to date.....come on......I was in my first marriage for 17 yrs, was 38 yrs old and STILL needed to be loved and made special. Thankfully I found a wonderful man and married again when I was 40, he was 54....Trust me, you need love all you life...you guys are just beginning your lives. Be patient...it will happen !!! And it's just as exciting and wonderful when you're 40 as when you're 20..
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I'm sorry. I feel the same way sometimes...if you ever wanna chat, PM me or find me on MSN/AIM, go to my prof for those.

Sometimes reading my bible honestly helped (not always because I felt warm and fuzzy, but because I'd fall asleep...lol)
 
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