What was your experience like living with in-laws/parents under the same roof (not temporarily but long-term basis)? Or what are your thoughts about it, especially when they are growing older (any strategies you guys have used)? What happens if your spouse is from a different racial background and you all have to live together with these barriers? Any horror stories or wonderful experiences?
Personally, I think it might really interfere with a couple's marriage such as issues with privacy, taking sides in conflict, pressure of living up to expectation, finance, raising kids, sexual intimacy, generational differences, wedging between spouses etc (but I've heard the other side of the argument that claims that any person who puts marriage on such a high pedestal before their own parents displeases God because you aren't honouring your parents so it is important to have them live with you so you can take care of them). Thoughts and stories appreciated =D
Personally, I think it might really interfere with a couple's marriage such as issues with privacy, taking sides in conflict, pressure of living up to expectation, finance, raising kids, sexual intimacy, generational differences, wedging between spouses etc (but I've heard the other side of the argument that claims that any person who puts marriage on such a high pedestal before their own parents displeases God because you aren't honouring your parents so it is important to have them live with you so you can take care of them). Thoughts and stories appreciated =D