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Living in the End Times: Advice for the Conscience of a Non-Believer

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1) How do you conduct yourself in adversity or the end times in a way that reflects the gravity of the situation and yet is consistent with your moral values and religious beliefs?...
I love the Love that loves me.
I love the Love that loves me.
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3) How do you ring the alarm bells to stay safe in your own personal life, protect friends and family whilst also keeping yourself calm and composed in the face of such overwhelming odds?...
I love the Love that loves me.

Whenever you feel grateful, you are being loved by the Love (Truth/God) that loves you.
So, love it back with all your heart, mind, and soul. Once you crack the bondage of reasoning and logic of this, loving with complete abandon becomes easy. It is that 'love of Love' within which is 'untouchable' by what is happening all around you.
 
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Thanks. I was actually a communist in the UK and briefly a member of the communist party of Britain. They had about 700-1,000 members out of a population of 66 million and were one of the largest far left groups. The far left vote hasn't gone above 1% in the UK since 1920 and often hangs around 0.5% or less depending on the year. Most of the support is from young people and in universities and doesn't reflect the wider population.

Certain groups have employed "entryist" tactics, such as joining the Labour Party under Jeremy Corbyn. This is more a sign of utter defeatism than anything else. They cannot build there own independent movement or win a mass base of supporters based on their own ideas, so like a parasite they try to feed off a more powerful host. The Communist Party USA (CPUSA) isn't entryist but has endorsed every Democratic Party presidential candidate since 1988. They probably don't have the money, resources or members to run their own campaign.

Even if I believed communism were the right response to the crisis of capitalism, these groups are so marginalised and irrelevant that it just isn't rational to expect them to grow from small groups huddled in someone's basement arguing over a passage in Marx or Lenin, to becoming a ruling party with the confidence of the people capable of governing an entire country. It is very difficult to turn these theories in to something that addresses everyday concerns of ordinary people even if it can appeal to a certain kind of intellectual vanity of trying to explain everything (of which I was seduced by until I got to understand it better). I grew out of it, although I still retain a deep interest in the subject.
 
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Well this is no Chinese Restaurant, and thus far, you have spent more time trying to convince me that you are some witnessing specialist, than you have speaking directly to the person who needs your expertise.


Just to help things along, I do appreciate JIMINZ being blunt and getting straight to the point. It is something to consider and keep in mind and I do need to honestly reconsider my beliefs on a range of sucjects. I was expecting a diversity of opinions in the responses I was going to get so I don't mind someone being direct about the nature of their faith.

However, Oberamagau is right in so far as conversion is not an overnight process accomplished with a single reply to a single thread. It often takes a great deal more time for someone to receive new ideas and to be receptive to them. Having tried to convert people in the past, (with zero success by the way ) a more conversational and friendly approach doesn't necessarily have the satisfaction of being blunt (and can feel a bit dishonest and manipulative at times if done without a genuine love and respect for the person concerned) but is often much more effective. People need to get to know you and to trust you before they really are willing to listen. At some point you have to let go and accept individual freedom is involved and is often more important than what we hold the truth to be- an unsettling experience I will concede even if it can be rewarding to see someone grow and to learn things from them. Though I never converted anyone to my past beliefs, a friendly, open approach was more effective at keeping people engaged. Talking over food and drink is always a bonus. That is just my two cents of experience anyway.
 
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This is a stunning and very welcome response combining both faith and your own life experience. I will try and do it justice with a longer and more through reply later when I have had time to mull it over. But it has given me much to think about. Thanks.
 
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I appreciate your words, thank you.

I do not want you to feel like I was Witnessing to you about you becoming a Christian because, I was not, your thread heading said you were looking for ADVICE.

I was doing nothing more than giving you the best advice possible, it is up to you whether or not you take anything I said and investigate the validity of it.

There isn't a Christian alive that can talk an Atheist into Christianity because, without God drawing you to Himself it's just a conversation on beliefs.

This is what I meant.

John 6:44
No man can come to me, except the Father which hath sent me draw him:
and I will raise him up at the last day.

Using your own words, Communism seemed to be a good thing, until you found it really isn't applicable, and you become disillusioned with it, Communism is a way of the world, whereas Christianity is the way of God.

The way of the world appears to work but, only for a limited time.

Again what I said was advice, you can take it or leave it, but when God Reveals Himself to you and Draws you by His Spirit, I could tell you that Bananas are 20 cents a pound and you would say Give me Jesus, it's not the Witnessing it's the Drawing of God Himself for you Immortal Soul.
 
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... Certain groups have employed "entryist" tactics ... This is more a sign of utter defeatism than anything ...


What a super honest and caring post. Personally as I don’t know how to change my “profile” I now count myself an “agnostic as to baggage” (“baggage” being contrasted to “god”).


If there are christians reading this I would like to think they will call on each other to confess representatively, and implore the Lord’s providence, and get in practice at keeping each other company. Because those are the only works that will cut ice with Our Lord, from those that claim “allegiance”.


Sentimental and hysterical religion could flourish in the boom years (ceased over 14 years ago, if anyone noticed). The sombre tone of most Christians on this thread is probably because we realised we ARE living among toxic people, if only at “service” or “meeting” times (I know several denominations from the inside).


I'm in the UK too (and I know what it is to be an "entryist" of very long standing)!
 
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Folks, this is NOT a debate forum, nor is the place to bicker back and forth about how to respond.

A clean up was done.
 
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Your thinking sounds very much like an intuitive theist. There are two systems of humanity which could respond to the present condition. In the case of design, mankind has a set of values that work and when humanity goes beyond those paradigms they break down and self destruct. However with unguided evolution it is random variance which brings about new features that lead to fitness. You have noticed the variance but you see them as our doom rather than our future. That model of thinking seems to fit the first system.

1) How do you conduct yourself in adversity or the end times in a way that reflects the gravity of the situation and yet is consistent with your moral values and religious beliefs?
This life is my childhood. This is my opportunity to grow into the adult I will be on the other side.

2) How do you come to terms with the loneliness of realizing that you are surrounded by people who are either moral vacuums, having no clear conscience of their own or no willingness to act or to recognize the situation, or are so genuinely corrupt that they embrace destruction and cannot therefore rely on them to co-operate when things turn bad?
This is something we Christians feel a lot. I have the opportunity to go to a church where there is a community of believers who embrace objective moral values and have committed themselves to those values.

3) How do you ring the alarm bells to stay safe in your own personal life, protect friends and family whilst also keeping yourself calm and composed in the face of such overwhelming odds?
I know that what happens here, and how I respond to it, is my opportunity to shape myself into the adult I will become on the other side of this brief life.
 
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Edit: I have tried to cut down the size of the quotations so it's more manageable. I expect it may be a difficult read, but I hope it is at least thoughtful and full of love.


I think I love this world too much to love God. I confess I probably love other people more than I love myself. I should have been more selfish and gone after the money, power and sex that everyone supposedly finds value in. Maybe I would have found meaning in it as others do.

But in pursuing higher values, whether it be to cure my own depression, to read a book, learn to play music or think about things that "matter" in so far they are larger than our own individual existence, I have lost something. There is an incomprehension, an uneasy admission of nihilism, that remains out of my reach of understanding.

If we built our world only for ourselves and then destroy ourselves in the process, we have negated the only meaning we ever had. All values stem from life and so without life, there can be no values. The end of the world is the end of all human values. It's bigger than just the death of an individual, no matter how much we may care for them.


I hold these views because I believe they are essentially true. I would never have chosen to believe these things otherwise. The details I am less certain of and that gives space to re-evaluate them. However, I don't believe it is a choice I can decide over what is true. It just simply "is" so. We have a duty to ourselves and others to follow the evidence where ever it leads us. We can only ever be free or hope to live productive and meaningful lives, if we follow the truth.

The truth is complicated, so I hope I have the humility to accept I have seen only a very small part of it.

I believe scripture. I understand the truth of scripture, especially passages like the following,

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Perfect love casts out fear. Whatever does not proceed from faith is sin.

Act like it.

I'm not a great one for scripture and I have yet to read a bible from cover to cover, but I do generally assume that a historical Jesus did in fact exist. I don't have a reason to challenge that. Sometimes it seems too human to be false. The idea that Jesus is arrested only for his followers to turn around and say "well, I knew he was a trouble-maker" seems too revealing to be anything other than true. The story is too human to be fiction. If it were fiction, whoever wrote it would put Shakespeare out of a job.

Yet, if Jesus did die for the sins of mankind, I can understand that. I can understand the love, the faith and the courage that could bring someone to do that, even if they knew the people they were saving were not worthy. Kindness makes us do strange things when we can see through the illusions of the world and gain perspective that for all the evil we may do, we never really stopped being frightened children frightened of monsters under the bed. Our fear makes us monsters, so in the end we do not have to fear the monsters we could become from abusing ourselves, others and our freedom.

It is something else however to watch humanity devalue it's own existence, it's own survival to the point that not even the most corrupt motives of self-interest can seem to stir us from our sleep-walking in to tragedy. We just let it happen.

There is a nihilism in that. Something profoundly inhumane, that is beyond forgiveness, compassion and love. There is only incomprehension because people themselves don't even know why the are going along with it. They do it anyway because we are trapped in the prison of our routine. That isn't a choice or freedom. That's a kind of slavery, but to what I don't know.


There is a great deal of exaggeration, but my understanding is that the science (of climate change at least) is sound. I do not believe that the sensationalism of the media is particularly helpful because it misinforms people but also isn't conducive to thoughtful discussion or reflection on what to do as these situations continue to develop.

Eventually, we are all going to have to be part of a much larger conversation about what we do once we realise we can no longer prevent an "end" of all things. I might be a little bit ahead of my time, but I don't think it's very long. People are starting to notice that there is something bigger going on that any one individual, even a Trump, can be held responsible for.


I haven't found god. But if I ever met him, her, or "it", I expect after a certian amount of rage and anger at the evils in the world, perhaps the tantrums of an unruly child, I would wonder whether "he" could be loved for what he has done to us or has allowed us to do to ourselves. I don't envy Jesus mounting himself on the cross for the sins of all mankind, but I wonder whether Jesus could ever love and forgive the god who sent of allowed the chosen people to the gas chambers. Every Jew should curse God as a wicked and evil deity, unworthy of human consideration. I don't believe evil disproves the existence of god- only that god cannot be "good" in a sense we can understand or would want to.

If god exists he gave me eyes to see, a mind to think and a heart to feel. God has alot of explaining to do, but I don't think there is any deity that can justify allowing the human race to destroying itself in a nuclear war or scavenging in the wreckage of our civilisation due to climate change. I can't imagine such a god and I don't want to. Perhaps some truths are best left unknown.


For what it is worth, thanks for your service, as it is clearly difficult to put yourself in the line of fire for the benefit of others. There are a great many people who have reason to be distressed because of their life experiences. Whilst I do have depression, I am grateful that I have been relatively fortunate. I have a relatively comfortable life, loving parents. I've never gone hungry and never known sexual or physical violence or abuse. Many have of course.

Yet I don't feel that the world's troubles don't stop at my front door. We are all connected and share our future on this planet together. As an individual I am not afraid of dying, but I don't seek it either. Death is inevitable, but we don't necessarily get to chose the time and circumstances.

It remains a challenge to explain how so many otherwise decent people, who often show concern for others in their own lives, could have become so indifferent and trapped in failing to secure the future of their very way of life. I know we avoid thinking about death and can compensate for our own mortality by believing we will leave "something" behind. It is hard however to contemplate that we are not simply going to die but also take down the work of past generations with us. That doesn't sit well with me at all however I put it. I don't have the love to accept that.
 
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Very interesting. Thanks for the clarification Shadow!
 
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Shadow: "I haven't found god. But if I ever met him, her, or "it", I expect after a certain amount of rage and anger at the evils in the world, perhaps the tantrums of an unruly child, I would wonder whether "he" could be loved for what he has done to us or has allowed us to do to ourselves. I don't envy Jesus mounting himself on the cross for the sins of all mankind, but I wonder whether Jesus could ever love and forgive the god who sent of allowed the chosen people to the gas chambers. Every Jew should curse God as a wicked and evil deity, unworthy of human consideration. I don't believe evil disproves the existence of god- only that god cannot be "good" in a sense we can understand or would want to.

If god exists he gave me eyes to see, a mind to think and a heart to feel. God has alot of explaining to do, but I don't think there is any deity that can justify allowing the human race to destroying itself in a nuclear war or scavenging in the wreckage of our civilisation due to climate change. I can't imagine such a god and I don't want to. Perhaps some truths are best left unknown."

Great thoughts Shadow! This is exactly the kind of intelligent, rational evaluation of Him and His Being and involvement with mankind that God wants us to grapple with. After we wrestle with these conflicting concepts for a bit, He then wants us to carefully examine his written revelation of Himself - the Bible - to determine the answers to these questions. Many Christians secretly - or overtly - believe God is incomprehensible ultimately, and we just have to accept that He is who He says He is, in faith. There is an element of truth to that (faith precedes understanding), but even those who experience this faith and are transformed by it struggle with understanding God. Wisdom and understanding are precious treasures and difficult to find according to the Book of Proverbs. The truth, though, in relation to God and His Person, is that He has MADE Himself comprehensible to a very significant degree via His written Word because that was His intent in revealing Himself in this way and in the person of Jesus Christ.

So why does evil exist in this world (as you indicated above) and, more specifically, why do bad things happen to good people?

Years ago I wrote several articles (at Planet Preterist) on this subject from the standpoint of God's attributes and this one falls under God's "Omniscience". Most people believe (without actually consulting the Scriptures) that God knows everything about everyone. In actual fact, He states repeatedly throughout the Scriptures that He does NOT have this unlimited knowledge about all of mankind individually. His angels do surveillance on His behalf and are basically sort of an "intelligence network" but God Himself does NOT track the activities and circumstances of every individual human on this planet. He ONLY tracks His closest friends and spiritual family at that level. So the "evil" that occurs and manifests itself in such horrific ways is really beyond His control unless He is alerted to it by the angels that it has reached levels requiring immediate intervention.

You mentioned the "chosen people" and the "gas chambers". I'm going to say a couple of things here that I trust will not be misconstrued as being somehow "hateful" or "antisemitic". I don't hate Jews. But our world today has some gross misconceptions concerning their real identity and their relation to the God of Israel and prophecy. The Jews of today (and those who suffered and died in the Holocaust) are not actually directly affiliated with the Nation of Israel in the Bible and are not "God's chosen People". They are not the descendants of Abraham, Isaac and Jacob and they have no part in any prophetic fulfillment of any kind. I can back that up with both Scripture and history if you like but that might be better handled in the "Controversial Christian Theology" corner of this forum.

Anyway, I hope some of these thoughts are helpful! I like where you've taken this whole quest and process of inquiry.
 
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Thanks.

I am still grappling with my own anti-religious sentiments to such an extent that I have been very reluctant to sit down and read the bible from cover to cover. That much I know is prejudice and doesn't deserve consideration, but it is there nonetheless so it is something I have to overcome. I did read Revelations as a kid (because that was the "cool" part that gets loads of movie references, ) and the very first part of Genesis. Beyond that my knowledge of Christianity is really only cultural references or a few parables I may have heard in primary school as a kid. (I still remember the poem "Footprints" from time to time).

When I was still a communist, I thought about whether people should ban Christmas. Christmas was the only major religious festivals I was involved in and on paper, Marxism said "basically yes!". I did try to not celebrate it, but my mum loves Christmas so I have gone along with it. I wouldn't insult my mum like that as it would be really petty. I like the food at Christmas anyways so the point was somewhat mute. The Soviet banned Christmas and replaced it with "days of industrialisation" when people went to work, only for the people to reinvent Christmas traditions for new years instead with a Christmas tree, cards and the Russian version of Santa giving presents to children. Although in historical terms it's such a small thing, it pokes holes in the ideology. The holes add up eventually because that's where the real story of humanity comes through, the "cracks in the Berlin wall" if you will.

In the end, I realised Christians should be the ones objecting to the commercialised, pagan nightmare Christmas has become. We could live without black Friday sales and the Flying Reindeer and decorated Pine Trees to celebrate a birth in the Middle East should raise more eye brows. It should really be reclaimed as a religious holiday and tell the rest of us to go do something else every December 25th. I'm sure the Turkeys would be relieved. But you can't stop people celebrating it however they want. It's so weird.

Anyways, I'm going off-topic somewhat.


Now, that is fascinating. I have never heard that before so that is quite a unique insight. If you have links to the articles available, I will certainly give them a look. If not, I will take your word for it for now and will have to do my own research at a later date. That is intriguing and certainly throws open the doors on to some new ideas.


No worries. I don't think we need to labour this point. In thinking about human suffering it was the first thing that came to mind. I wasn't sure if including it was a good idea, but it just felt "right" even if it is genuinely quite dark.

Anyway, I hope some of these thoughts are helpful! I like where you've taken this whole quest and process of inquiry.

Yes, thanks very much. Keep them coming. I am reading everyone.
 
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I'll see if I can track down those articles for you Shadow! I took a look over at PlanetPreterist and it looks like the website and domain have been sold to someone else and it's in a foreign language now. It looks like my articles are no longer archived there. But I can break down the basics for you here too at my next opportunity. Time to get ready for work now though! Great discussion here!
 
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I think I love this world too much to love God.
Immaterial. This op is about managing or reducing your distress. Correct?
If we built our world only for ourselves and then destroy ourselves in the process, we have negated the only meaning we ever had.
That is circular.

You, according to you, are selfish and too selfish, and yet building the world only to ourselves and destroying it negates meaning.
All values stem from life and so without life, there can be no values.
That is not quite correct.

Values may not be known where no sentient knowing life exists, but if a God exists then values exist whether a single human ever draws breath to know them or not. If you're negating the existence of God then there is still the problem of subjectivism because a group of humans creating a world of values only for themselves invariably leads to self-destruction.

It's definitely not going to help you with your worry.
The end of the world is the end of all human values.
That is true if what you believe is true. If what I believe is true the the end of the world 1) isn't going to happen, 2) if it does happen then it's not the end of values, and 3) it might well just be a milestone toward bigger and better things.

Yay! Let's end the world!
Romans 6:1-9
"What shall we say then? Are we to continue in sin so that grace may increase? May it never be! How shall we who died to sin still live in it? Or do you not know that all of us who have been baptized into Christ Jesus have been baptized into His death? Therefore we have been buried with Him through baptism into death, so that as Christ was raised from the dead through the glory of the Father, so we too might walk in newness of life. For if we have become united with Him in the likeness of His death, certainly we shall also be in the likeness of His resurrection, knowing this, that our old self was crucified with Him, in order that our body of sin might be done away with, so that we would no longer be slaves to sin; for he who has died is freed from sin. Now if we have died with Christ, we believe that we shall also live with Him, knowing that Christ, having been raised from the dead, is never to die again; death no longer is master over Him."

1 Corinthians 15:32 ESV
"If the dead are not raised, 'Let us eat and drink, for tomorrow we die.'”

Your worry betrays any authenticity. Why? Because you are going to die. It is just a matter of time before the inevitable happens. Maybe the Trump-Kim summit will work out amazingly well but you are gonna die no matter how that summit ends. Maybe failures in that summit will somehow end up with you dying because Kim sends a nuclear missile to your hometown. Boom! You're dead.

Your worries are over.

The solution to the worries expressed in this op is to have that which you dread happen! Does that qualify as irony?
I hold these views because I believe they are essentially true.
Unless what I believe is true.
I'm not a great one for scripture and I have yet to read a bible from cover to cover, but I do generally assume that a historical Jesus did in fact exist.
Wait a minute.

You have chosen your values without ever having read (and therefore correctly understood) the single greatest book on values and spirituality known to modern humanity? Have you read any of the other great religions' great books?

Do you think that might have something to do with the angst exprssed in this op?
That isn't a choice or freedom. That's a kind of slavery, but to what I don't know.
You need to read the Book.
I haven't found god. But if I ever met him, her, or "it", I expect...
If you ever meet God you'll be amazed you didn't cr@p your britches. You'll be amazed you're still drawing breath. Such is the love He has for you.
If god exists he gave me eyes to see, a mind to think and a heart to feel.
Indeed.

Romans 1:20
"...since the creation of the world His invisible attributes, His eternal power and divine nature, have been clearly seen, being understood through what has been made, so that they are without excuse."

We (theists and non-theists) are all looking at the exact same evidence. We simply draw different conclusions.
God has alot of explaining to do...
No, you have the cart before the horse. This is a huge part of the problem: you think God is accountable to you, not the other way around. You think the Creator is accountable to the creature. You do so because in your lack of knowledge you do not like the way things are even as you acknowledge your own selfishness and the self-serving nature of the world. You just said this is what you've chosen. God did not make you selfish. God did not make you choose as you have chosen and if He rent the fabric of time and space and prevented you from making more selfish choices you'd with your last breath complain about His doing so!

On one hand you want God to stop such choices but on the other you want your choices, though they be selfish. That is not a God problem.
...I don't think there is any deity that can justify allowing the human race to destroying itself in a nuclear war or scavenging in the wreckage of our civilisation due to climate change.
Than I guess it's a good thing He has prevented that from happening.

Too bad you don't give Him credit for it.

Too bad you prefer worry over giving God some credit. Too bad you choose selfishness over love and faith. Too bad you choose selfishness over altruism.
I can't imagine such a god and I don't want to. Perhaps some truths are best left unknown.
Don't look now but you already have imagined such a God.

And a godless universe in which the non-existing god permits the destruction of the world humans live on causes you distress.

There is a better way.
For what it is worth, thanks for your service, as it is clearly difficult to put yourself in the line of fire for the benefit of others.
You misunderstand my post. I was a criminal. I was a criminal picking up a shipment of drugs to sell to others so they could satisfy their addictions when some crazy addict decided he was going to play games and hold me hostage. I was a criminal negotiating the manufacture of PCP with chemists and mobsters when some crazy fool decided things were to stressful so he decided to air things out a little and almost got everyone killed. I was a criminal when the police kicked in the door looking for a con artist who didn't happen to be on the premises and by the grace of God know one was holding so they had to leave. I was a criminal when....

I was not serving anyone but myself.

My selfishness made you selfishness look amateurish.
I have a relatively comfortable life, loving parents. I've never gone hungry and never known sexual or physical violence or abuse.
And yet in your selfish life you dread and are not happy about it even though this is what you have chosen.

This isn't rocket science, Shadow. Give God a chance.

Don't read the Bible cover to cover yet. Read the books of John, Acts, and Romans. You'll get a gospel, a little history of the early believers, and a little doctrine (much of which will be applicable to your life).
It remains a challenge to explain how so many otherwise decent people, who often show concern for others in their own lives, could have become so indifferent and trapped...
There are no decent people, Shadow. There are just varying degrees of selfishness. I used to be very much selfish and am now a little less so. I recommend you try God.

There's 65 chapters in John, Acts, and Romans. If you read three chapters a day it will take just over a month to get through all three books. Every day this month read three chapters and spend at least one single minute (two or three if you like) talking to the God you don't think exists about your worries and ask Him to help you understand what it is you're reading. Once a week do something kind and selfless, maybe even venture over to the food bank and stock shelves or ladle soup at the local shelter for a couple of hours.

Just one month.

Would you pay one month to be rid of your angst?

Philippians 4:6-7 NIV
"Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God."


Or don't.

You choose.

But remember: If there is a God there will be no blaming God for choices you and others of your mindset have made.
 
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As an atheist I do not attribute this process to god but to man.

Nice to meet you Shadow...

Just a heads up - this process is 100% man, even for those of us who believe in God.

I don't attribute the negative events that lead to Jesus' return to be caused by God, rather they are caused by man following exactly what man wants to do...

At some point so many people will turn away from God, and the human condition (in largest part) becomes so depraved that God will remove His restraining Hand and let people have exactly what they want, and do exactly what they desire..

God is not cause - man is. God will simply at one point allow man to be all that man desires to be..

Just a heads up.
 
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Shadow, you are right, it is good that there are some of us wanting to carry the world on our shoulders.

Now who promised you - or me - or church members - a "rose garden"? Kenneth Copeland? Cardinal Re?

Maybe the deal ALWAYS WAS far deeper and more serious, all along.

I am crying, too. A lot.
 
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If God is there, I don't understand why he would allow his own people to create a revival instead of the world ending, either directly through his intervention or man's.

I don't want the world to end soon. I want to experience having a relationship, family, or getting married.
 
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And if they were able to succeed infiltrating and destabilizing society, I consider that the enemy has already won anyway.
 
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no one knows the end jesus doesnt know either only the father knows
 
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