"And he took bread, and gave thanks, and brake it, and gave unto them, saying, This is my body which is given for you: this do in remembrance of me. (Luke 22:20 KJV) Likewise also the cup after supper, saying, This cup is the new testament in my blood, which is shed for you." (Luke 22:19 KJV)
UberLutheran,
We are do this this do in remembrance of Jesus. (Luke 22:20). Whether its grape juice or wine, we do it in remembrance of Him. I attend a Baptist and an Anglican church: Baptist uses juice and Anglican uses wine: I have no problem with either one. Jesus didn't tell us to drink wine or juice, but to drink His blood and His flesh in remembrance of him.
It's alright though. I can understand. You want a very formal experience of remembering Jesus, which is fine

Why not?
But just keep in mind that as long as we do it in remembrance, that is what counts.
No problem! My girlfriend, who is an Anglican, feels the same way about the Baptist church that we both attend. She feels the Baptist church should be more formal and not casual. But whether your in a Baptist church or a Lutheran or a Catholic, or even in your own home,
"where two or three of you have gathered together in my name, there am I in the midst" ( Matt. 18:15-20).
Thats fine. It is better to feel more at home, this way, you feel more relaxed and joyful when you lean on the Lord.
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But, whether you feel it or not, God always is looking at your heart when you are worshiping and not your surroundings or what other peoples are doing. God looks at individuals, individually.
Remember:
Matt. 18:15-20.
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