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So what?
I can take two approaches to this:
This is the approach that leftists use at studies demonstrating sexual promiscuity and lack of monogamy amongst homosexuals: "The report is flawed."
However, this is my approach:
Whatever. I am not sexually aroused by men and I condemn homosexuality. I do not consider myself a homophobic, though, as I do not fear them. There is nothing to fear of differences.
... And I'd hate to be so disappointed first thing in the morning.
Whatever. I am not sexually aroused by men and I condemn homosexuality. I do not consider myself a homophobic, though, as I do not fear them. There is nothing to fear of differences.
Quite correct. "Homophobic" has come to denote more than its literal rendering, "Fear of homosexuals."Time to get the knives out...
First of all, you may not consider yourself homophobic, but I'd guess most other people would by the very fact you condemn homosexuality. Lets have a look at the definition of homophobic:
homophobic
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ho·mo·pho·bic [ hmə fṓbik ]
adjective
Definition: having irrational hatred of homosexuality: showing an irrational hatred, disapproval, or fear of homosexuality, gay and lesbian people, or their culture
And as you well know homophobia has nothing to do with fear of homosexualsSo what?
I can take two approaches to this:
This is the approach that leftists use at studies demonstrating sexual promiscuity and lack of monogamy amongst homosexuals: "The report is flawed."
However, this is my approach:
Whatever. I am not sexually aroused by men and I condemn homosexuality. I do not consider myself a homophobic, though, as I do not fear them. There is nothing to fear of differences.
Actually.... so what? They got aroused. Doesn't mean anything. It happens to me when I'm not even thinking about anything sometimes. Embarrassing, sure. But expose someone to something like that, what do you think the result is gonna be? Doesn't nervousness play into this too? Like, "Oh I don't want to see this" kinda thing. Flight or fight response, baby. Besides.... if that's your choice, fine. But leave me out of it. I don't need to see something as.... well, unnatural as that.
And Maynard, maybe we're just afraid taht we'll look stupid? Homosexuality is kinda a delicate subject, ya know. And an embarrassing one for a guy.
Not really. Separate parts of the brain would light up.He does present a valid point... one more uncomfortable with homosexuality might just get nervous and uncomfortable with such footage. This would generate some sympathetic nervous system action which could easily spill over into sexual arousal.
It seems telling the homophobes that they are actually gay is the greatest weapon in shutting them up.![]()
Well, you have to hand it to the liberals for the way they use this piece of propaganda. It convinces the masses that there is something pathological about disapproving of homosexuality, and it makes dissidents fearful of speaking up in fear of implicitly signalling their homosexuality.
Do you think freedom of speech is a good thing?
If the intellectual climate is one where the consequences of expressing particular opinions are draconian, is not freedom of speech effectively compromised?