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Man life is ripping me a new one. Like i slept with this one girl but she didnt satisfy me so i dumped her for her sister. Anyway god decided that i should have a kid with both of these women, even though i used a grocery bag as a condom. Long story short, I asked both of these women to have an abortion but they both are refusing. I don't want to give them child support. And worse what am I going to tell these kids when they are born. That they are brothers or sisters and cousins? Man, what should I do. I was thinking I should move to a far away place and pretend to disappear. What do you think?
 

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Bible_Reader: You should read what the Bible says about fornication. Also 1 John 1:9.

That being said, I suggest you get paternity tests on both kids. Once that is done, pay up. There is an old saying, "If you can't do the time, then don't do the crime."

I suggest you spend more time reading your BIble and working on your walk with the Lord and keep your pants zipped.
 
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life is really hard when you live it without reasonable responsibilities. i've read all your posts. you need to embrace what responsibility means. not the way you see things done. you admit you live in the "getto". you need to search out responsible people and learn from them.
God's word will make more sense when you commit your life and life style to being responsible without short cuts.
 
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is this post a joke?

If not then.......my adivice to you is get into the Word of God,repent, ask for forgiveness and start living a godly life...get right with God.
No God did not tell you to get these two women preganant. The bible says for us to not have sex before marriage.You went against what the bible teaches about sex and marriage,now you have to suffer the consequences.
Be a man and stand up to your responsibilities,your going to be a father.Don't run away like a little child.
 
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