Life is depressing now

[usaguy12345]

i wake up with no one, go to a boring job, and come home to no one. I'm about to turn 29 and i'm begininng to think i will never find anyone. I have a college degree, great family and friends, but i'm sooo lonley. life feels meaningless to me. going out on the weekends isn't fun like it used to be and coming home to an empty house every night sucks. i used to think it would just be a matter of time until i found someone, but now i'm doubting that. i know i should be thankful for what i have and i try to be, but its just so hard sometimes. i would really like to have someone to raise a family with. i feel like the more time that past the least likely i will be able to find a "good" girl. please pray for me, i don't want to feel lonely. ty.

 

[mpok1519]

I am sorry to hear of your misfortune; we all want to be loved, and have someone to love. We all want that. We all wish to not be alone. We all long for someone to understand us, and cherish us as we would be able to cherish and understand them. Yes, these are all natural things.

People all told me I'd find someone perfect; that, theres someone out there for everyone. But I stopped listening to that long ago, and decided the only way to get what I want is to get up, go out, and go do it, by any means neccessary. You have the free will, you have the ability, and you have the courage to do whatever it is you want to do, and you can do it flawlessly.

Its all about unlocking that belief, and living it. You can do anything, you want to do and no one will stand in your way. <staff edit> So I implore you to chin-up, and go out looking for Ms Right.

where to look?

Go to the Farmer's Market. Or, pumpkin or strawberry patch when in season. Spinning class and the gym are great places to meet women. Paintball too.

 

[Criada]

You are still young, there is plenty of time
I know that sounds like a platitude, but it is true. My brother married 3 years ago at the age of 35, and now has a 1 year old daughter.
Just keep going to places where you will meet people with similar interests and values to yourself, and make friends.
Praying for you.

 

[socal890]

i actually belong to a sports club and there is a really nice pretty girl that works there. were on really good terms, we talk and say hi... but... i know she has a bf... would it be wrong of me to attempt to change that?