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JimfromOhio

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Ever since I cut back lurking and posting here in CF, my life is more productive and less stressful. I even started setting up my "pre-retirement" home-based bookkeeping business. I am planning to start a business this year so when I retire in about 2 years, I will have a second income along with my pension. :thumbsup:

I am doing my own biblical study and research without getting into debates with others. :holy:

Now, I just lurk most of the time and post less. :thumbsup:

I don't miss debating, especially politics. :clap:
 
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Real life comes first and I find that getting on the internet can be REAL time consuming.

Glad you have a plan for retirement. I have about 5 years to go yet for sure.
 
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I've had less time to spend on forums lately and I've found it to be a positive thing too. I find I care a lot less about the drama. It's a better balance for me. It's far too easy to care too much about something as silly as a forum. There's no way anything on the Internet should have so much power over how my day goes! lol
 
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JimfromOhio

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Real life comes first and I find that getting on the internet can be REAL time consuming.

Glad you have a plan for retirement. I have about 5 years to go yet for sure.

Yes. Debating over petty issues consumed my time rather than being productive in "good debates".

I am eligible to retire in 2 years but probably will work for 5 more years. However, I am starting a business to get my feet grounded so I can be ready financially by the time I retire.
 
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JimfromOhio

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I've had less time to spend on forums lately and I've found it to be a positive thing too. I find I care a lot less about the drama. It's a better balance for me. It's far too easy to care too much about something as silly as a forum. There's no way anything on the Internet should have so much power over how my day goes! lol

Yes, drama consumes people's lives. I found drama not productive, in fact, they are so negative that it breeds other areas of our lives.
 
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Now, I just lurk most of the time and post less. :thumbsup:

I don't miss debating, especially politics. :clap:

I've been doing the same Jim, but I do miss the friendship stuff, but more importantly I'm talking to my wife more, and she is, well, pretty important to me. :)



Real life comes first and I find that getting on the internet can be REAL time consuming.

Glad you have a plan for retirement. I have about 5 years to go yet for sure.

And how young would you be in 5 years? ;) Glad to see you were promoted to an Admin, you deserve it :thumbsup: I'm still mulling around whether to return to staff this winter, :confused:
 
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JimfromOhio

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I've been doing the same Jim, but I do miss the friendship stuff, but more importantly I'm talking to my wife more, and she is, well, pretty important to me. :)





And how young would you be in 5 years? ;) Glad to see you were promoted to an Admin, you deserve it :thumbsup: I'm still mulling around whether to return to staff this winter, :confused:

Due to some Christians who bicker and not really compliant to the rules, I chose not to be moderator. I just don't have the patience.^_^
 
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