That's what you've said, though I don't recall this being stated by others.
Evidently, it doesn't matter. You are declaring it false. I tend to agree with you. We'll see if Phileothei disagrees with you.
So,
the question stands: Where is the confirmation of this specific vow you claim Mary made to God, that the precise content of said vow was "I shall die or undie as never had sex," and that it is a dogmatic fact of highest importance to and for all and a matter of greatest certainty of truth that
Mary Had No Sex EVER? That's the issue. Again, I'd likely accept whatever YOU would accept as confirmation that, "it is a dogmatic fact of highest importance to and for all and a matter of greatest certainty of truth that my mother will have had sex 7654 times at the moment of her death (or undeath, if you prefer)."
What have we gotten so far?
1. "We have nothing from Mary, Joseph, Jesus, all the Apostles, all the biblical penmen, and everyone who lived before 220 AD." Compelling? For a dogmatic fact of highest importance to and for all, a matter of greatest certainty of truth?
2. "The first person we know that said ANYTHING about this is Turtullian from about 220 AD who denies it." Compelling? For a dogmatic fact of highest importance to and for all, a matter of greatest certainty of truth?
3. "It is at least theoretically POSSIBLE that the brothers and sisters of Jesus mentioned in the Bible are not the children of Mary and ergo it is
IMPOSSIBLE that Mary even once had sex." Compelling? For a dogmatic fact of highest importance to and for all, a matter of greatest certainty of truth?
4. "The ancient tradition of the Church that the Incarnation and the Annunciation is wrong, and when Mary answered the angel in the present active tense, she meant to use the future perfect: "I AM virgin" actually should have been, "I will die - or not - having not had sex even once." If I post, "I am a virgin" (as I could), that is confirmation that at the moment of my death (or undeath) I will have had sex not once. Compelling? For a dogmatic fact of highest importance to and for all, a matter of greatest certainty of truth?
5. "God had sex with Mary ("virginity" here be defined as no sex WITH A HUMAN, she's not a virgin in the sense of having not had sex) and thus is married to her, polygamy NEVER existed among the Jews, ergo Mary never married Joseph and ergo never had sex with him - just God." Compelling? For a dogmatic fact of highest importance to and for all, a matter of greatest certainty of truth?(I realize this actually is not an apologetic the RC accepts - but it's heard, including here).
6. From the Third Century on, we seem to be able to find some who believe this and they do believe it. None even attempts to reveal it as true, but they do believe it. Compelling? For a dogmatic fact of highest importance to and for all, a matter of greatest certainty of truth?
Again, IF it was stated that it is a dogmatic fact of highest importance to and for all, a matter of greatest certainty of truth that your mother - at the moment of her death (or undeath if you prefer) will have had sex 7654 times, what would YOU accept as confirmation? Look at the 6 things above.
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