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This is not about anyone being offended re: statements about someone's private life; about whether or not someone has had sex.
I disagree.
The
Dogma of
Mary Had no Sex EVER is about sex.
And it is about someone.
Should we talk about how often you have sex?
And will have sex up to and including the moment of your death?
Is that, too, a matter of highest importance for all to know?
Does it matter, at all, if what is said about you in THIS regard is true?
Thekla said:
fter all, it is the Holy Scriptures that makes statements about Mary's private sex life; it is stated in the Bible that Mary is virgin.
MARY said that she was a virgin at the Annunciation.
The reason seems to be the expectation that the Messiah would be so conceived.
If YOU tell me that you will have no sex EVER - I'll believe you. But so far, you haven't told us anything about how often you have and will have sex up to and including the moment of your death.
No, the Bible says NOTHING about how often Mary did - or did not - have sex during her time on earth prior to Her death (or is it undeath, what is the EO teaching on that).
Thekla said:
This is about the typical male view about sex: that men deserve to have sex. That no-one may refuse a man's desire to have sex. It's about taking offense at women having any agency, about owning their bodies and their "voice" (to use the Feminist term).
Absurd.
There are only two (maybe 3) denominations on the planet, in all of history (out of the 50,000 + denominations some Catholics insist exist) that have ANY view on how often Mary did (or did not) have sex after Jesus was born, or anything AT ALL about the private matters of the marital relations of Mary and Jospeh. NOTHING. It's the RCC and EOC that insist THIS issue of sex among them is a matter of highest important for all to know! It is those that insist that it is a matter of greatest certainty of Truth that
Mary Had No Sex EVER. The enormous focus, the gigantic interest in THIS is found solely in two (or three) denominations - yours among them.
You trying to turn the tables and to suggest this is a feminist issue is absurd. And does NOTHING to provide the confirmation to the level claimed that it is a matter of highest importance to all and greatest certainty of Truth that
Mary Had No Sex EVER.
Thekla said:
This tendency is extended to an offense at women expressing themselves. When what a woman states is twisted, ignored, denied. It has happened amply in this thread -- statements made by women are perhaps not even read, as summaries of what is posted skip the point being made, or is changed away from what has actually been said. Like refusing to respect what Mary has said for herself.
In fact, you have repeatedly refused or failed to respond directly to what I post.
I have responded to any and all efforts to confirm to that it is a matter of highest importance to all and greatest certainty of Truth that
Mary Had No Sex EVER. I've not responded to your irrelevant comments such as that I must have some male hang ups about men getting their way in bed and that's why I have no opinion on how often Mary had sex and that's why I'm asking why YOU (not I) think that how often couples have sex is SUCH a very, very important issue.
This is about the possibility that a man might be refused sex.
Ah. Your position is suddenly coming into clear focus.
For you, Mary is a feminist hero.
Rejecting her husband's love.
And
THAT documents that it is a dogmatic fact of highest importance to all and greatest certainty of Truth that
Mary Had No Sex EVER. Or (perhaps far more important) makes it irrelevant whether it's true or not - it is to be embraced by feminists everywhere?
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