To paraphrase st Isaac:
"We cannot even believe such a thing can be found in those human beings who live a virtuous and upright life and whose thoughts are entirely in accord with the divine will- let alone believe this of God"
God told us to love our enemies and sacrifice ourselves for sinners just as His Son did. He told us this because it's in His nature to love His enemies (sinners). Why would the son sacrafice Himself for people he hated?
Well our conversation was about wrath, so here it is explicitly:
Rom 5:9
9 Much more then, having now been justified by His blood, we shall be saved from the wrath of God through Him.
NASU
Where this has nothing to do with our perspective but the objective reality of what we are saved from.
As for the hatred of God . . . our human concepts of hate and love cannot be imported into the perfect expressions of such emotions by the God who has them WITHOUT FAULT. So to foist the commands that He gives US upon Him, assuming that the errors that plagues us must also be concerns for Him is folly (not saying that you said this, I am just saying it).
The question is not, does God hating anything contradict what conclusions I draw from certain scriptures, the question IS does the Scripture teach that God hates sinners, does He hate the sin or does He hate both . . . and if it does teach this, THEN how do we reconcile the CLEAR teaching that He does with our ASSUMPTIONS about what other texts teach that SEEM to contradict this?
SO to the texts:
Ps 5:4-6
4 For You are not a God who takes pleasure in wickedness;
No evil dwells with You.
5 The boastful shall not stand before Your eyes;
Youhate all who do iniquity.
6 You destroy those who speak falsehood;
The LORD abhors the man of bloodshed and deceit.
NASU
Here the text says quite clearly that it is THE PERSON who does iniquity that the Lord hates
Prov 8:12-13
12 "I, wisdom, dwell with prudence,
And I find knowledge and discretion.
13 "The fear of the LORD is to hate evil;
Pride and arrogance and the evil way
And the perverted mouth, I hate.
NASU
Here again it is the person AND the deed that God hates
Isa 1:14
14 "I hate your new moon festivals and your appointed feasts,
They have become a burden to Me;
I am weary of bearing them.
NASU
Here it is simply the deed
Jer 12:8
8 "My inheritance has become to Me
Like a lion in the forest;
She has roared against Me;
Therefore I have come tohate her.
NASU
Here it is the people again
Hos 9:15
15 All their evil is at Gilgal;
Indeed, I came to hate them there!
Because of the wickedness of their deeds
I will drive them out of My house!
I will love them no more;
All their princes are rebels.
NASU
Again the people
Prov 6:16-19
6 There are six things which the LORD hates,
Yes, seven which are an abomination to Him:
17 Haughty eyes, a lying tongue,
And hands that shed innocent blood,
18 A heart that devises wicked plans,
Feet that run rapidly to evil,
19 A false witness who utters lies,
And one who spreads strife among brothers.
NASU
Here it is both act and the person
Ps 11:5
The LORD tests the righteous and the wicked,
And the one who loves violence His soul hates.
NASU
Here is the person again
So the texts show that God BOTH hates the sin AND the sinner. Why? Though He does indeed love them in the sense of being able and willing to forgive the person should they come to Christ, He is also just and Holy and stands in opposition and hatred to sin.
Light births light and darkness births darkness . . . if the person pays attention to light then more light is birthed, consequently the one who gives sway to darkness, more darkness is birthed. The person does not just HAVE darkness . . . THEY BECOME DARKNESS. Even as Jesus BECAME SIN, WE BECOME SIN . . . we take on the properties of what God hates and thereby we become hated by God also.
Henry Scougal put it along these lines:
The worth and excellency of a soul is to be measured by the object of its love (not merely love, BUT DELIGHTING LOVE, ADORATION), iow, by what one delights in. He who loves mean and sordid things becomes base an vile; but a noble and well placed affection advances and improves the spirit in conformity with the affections w/ which it loves.
If you love sin you BECOME base and vile . . . you become what you behold.
This is essentially your doctrine of theosis . . . as you behold Christ, you become, not God (Christ), but holy as He is holy . . .
What I am presenting is the inverse of theosis. The principle remains the same, only in theosis you become more like Jesus, and in beholding and loving sin you become more like sin . . . thusly, your soul is an afront to God.
THIS IS THE REASON FOR WRATH.
"We cannot even believe such a thing can be found in those human beings who live a virtuous and upright life and whose thoughts are entirely in accord with the divine will- let alone believe this of God"
Here is the issue tho, the commands that God gives to fallen creatures cannot be assumed to be requisites of Him also, as He is not a fallen creature prone to experience the sinful side of these same emotions.
Take love . . . 1 cor 13 . . . love seeks not its own . . . right? Yet God commands us to worship Him, to glorify Him, to exalt Him and raise His name and sing His praise! God seeks His own ALL OVER SCRIPTURE!
Why then does He command us so, yet it does not apply to Him?
1. We are fallen and if we ever sought our "own" apart from Him it would be shot through with sin
2. God, by seeking His own, is not selfish and arrogant nor prideful. In commmanding us to seek His gllory, praise, exaltation . . . HE PROVIDES US WITH THE BEST THING THAT THERE IS . . . HIMSELF. He would be WICKED to NOT command us to seek His glory, because He would be keeping us from our greatest good . . . HIMSELF. Ergo, God is the ONE being in the universe to whom seeking His own glory is for the good of others and therefor is the one being to whom the concept of "love seeks not its own" does not apply . . . it is BY SEEKING His own that HIS GREATEST LOVE IS DEMONSTRATED. God does EVERYTHING for His glory, and that is our greatest good.
Likewise, when it comes to hate, the command of Jesus to "love your enemies" in the context of fallen human to human relationships, does not apply to God . . . there is no temptaion to sin in God's hatred . . . and He does not need to conform to the standards of fallen human relations BECAUSE HE IS NOT EVEN HUMAN.