Let's say...

jenniferkat said:

Let's say,


you found out that your leading Pastor {in his late 40's} has been fornicating for the last three years with an unbeliever {she is in her early 20's} and your Pastor accidentally got her pregnant. I say accidentally because he never wanted to really marry her or any lady because he was afraid of commitment. He's been a player most of his life. This man has had many affairs through out the years hiding this from his congregation.

This Pastor has been living an ungodly lifestyle for the last 20 some years and has been very good about covering up his wicked behavior.

Would you stay in this Pastor's church?

Would you expect him to marry this unbeliever?

What are your thoughts about this deceiver?

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gideons300 said:

I cannot think of a reason to stay under the authority of a false shepherd, can you? Will you be fed?

As to what you should expect from him, you have no right to expect anything. It is his life and his problem and between him, the woman and God.

Gideon

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jenniferkat said:

Let's say,


you found out that your leading Pastor {in his late 40's} has been fornicating for the last three years with an unbeliever {she is in her early 20's} and your Pastor accidentally got her pregnant. I say accidentally because he never wanted to really marry her or any lady because he was afraid of commitment. He's been a player most of his life. This man has had many affairs through out the years hiding this from his congregation.

This Pastor has been living an ungodly lifestyle for the last 20 some years and has been very good about covering up his wicked behavior.

Would you stay in this Pastor's church? I honestly would be leaving and not saying in the church but at the same time this is me talking as look in on the situation not me seeking God about it though. But, would I end up leaving I personally would want to but at the same time I would be praying about the situation and fasting not only about whether to say or not but also pray for him and the rest of the congregation b/c there may be some that will be deeply hurt by it. There is even a chance that someone could backslide (I rebuke that) but it could really hindersome people not saying it should but saying it could.


Would you expect him to marry this unbeliever? To be honest no I wouldn't expect him to get married to the beleiver, I don't beleive in getting married just because they will have a child together but at the same time I don't support believe in or condone sex before marriage. But at the same time the sin has already been committed the sin is not in having the child or getting pregant the child is not a sin or punishment really but the sin was in having sex outside of marriage. I think at this point they just have to seek God on what to do and work things out.

What are your thoughts about this deceiver? I won't actually call him a deceiver I don't even know the guy or know all the ins and outs of the situation but I just think that he really needs to work this out relationship wise, with both the church, the women, and with God. First and Foremost with God then the church and women.

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