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Let me play devil's advocate...

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Not me, anymore. It's the "questioning youth" that a Christian like me is concerned about.
For once, I agree. As Christians we should be concerned about youth, especially those who are currently having problems with their sexual orientation (for whatever reason). As a Christian, I try to show that I believe God's love extends to homosexuals, bisexuals, transsexuals, asexuals, and heterosexuals equally. And I do not believe that any of those orientations are sinful - nor do I believe that God feels any of them are wrong.

So, if you DO have sex with a homosexual you too are homosexual.
No, one could be bisexual to one extent or another, and participate in sex with someone of their own gender.

Not according to gay activists. You either support gay sex or you are a homophobe, bigot, or hateful.
I am a gay activist. I do not believe that everyone against granting equal rights to gay people is irrationally scared of homosexuals (homophobic), heterosexist or otherwise hateful. I simply believe that they are misguided in their religious beliefs, and that it is unethical and unconstitutional for them to use laws to force everyone to abide by their religious beliefs.

Though, this is not to say that there are not homophobic, heterosexist, or otherwise hateful people that are anti-gay-rights. Just that I don't believe that they must be one of those three in order to be against it. I do, however, believe all of them to be misguided.
 
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For once, I agree. As Christians we should be concerned about youth, especially those who are currently having problems with their sexual orientation (for whatever reason).

We are opposites on what to do to help them. Encouraging them to sin is not helping them AND it is certainly not a Christian thing to do. This is why we see the incessant secularization of the education systems. All the usual suspects working away.

As a Christian, I try to show that I believe God's love extends to homosexuals, bisexuals, transsexuals, asexuals, and heterosexuals equally.

It should extend to people. Sex acts are not people.

And I do not believe that any of those orientations are sinful - nor do I believe that God feels any of them are wrong.

Lust is a sexual orientation. Acting on lust is the sin.

No, one could be bisexual to one extent or another, and participate in sex with someone of their own gender.

Like I said, this eliminates the seductive nature of the person looking to initiate newcomers into deviant behavior. It's really creepy that the gay thing is presented this way. It literally covers every base of eliminating any guilt or wrongdoing on both parts. No other sin that I know of is given such a pass or treatment of excuse.

I am a gay activist.

And I am your opposition activist.

I do not believe that everyone against granting equal rights to gay people is irrationally scared of homosexuals (homophobic), heterosexist or otherwise hateful.

Heterosexist? What a cruel joke these neologisms. Looking at what goes on in gay culture, it is a very sane endeavor to oppose gay activism. Nothing irrational or hateful about from my side.

I simply believe that they are misguided in their religious beliefs, and that it is unethical and unconstitutional for them to use laws to force everyone to abide by their religious beliefs.

But it's OK for you to force your beliefs on them?

Though, this is not to say that there are not homophobic, heterosexist, or otherwise hateful people that are anti-gay-rights.

Why should the parctice of certain kinds of sex acts become a civil rights or minority qualifier? Marriage is a man and a woman. If you are concerned about your Christian life, you should be an activist for that. All of the Disciples were.

And heterosexist? PUHLEEEEAAAASSSSEEE.

Just that I don't believe that they must be one of those three in order to be against it. I do, however, believe all of them to be misguided.

What if it is you and your counterparts in the non and anti Christian camps that are ALL misguided? YOU, have not one shred of scripture to "be" a Christian supporting gay activism. You have not one place in all of anatomey, physiology and biology to champion same-gender sex.

This is why people like me question your motives and oppose your actions.

Everytime you try to spread your gay doctrine, I'll be there to show it for what it is.

Where do we go from here?
 
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Lust is a sexual orientation. Acting on lust is the sin.
If one believes that humans were created by God, then one assumes that God created us with a sex drive for a reason. Feeling attraction to other humans is natural, enjoying sex is natural. Lust is a natural emotion.

I mean, if God didn't want humans to lust, He would have made sure that we can not. You are free to stifle your impulse to lust if you feel it is best for you. But others need to resist temptations under their own will power. It is not our job as Christians to point out the motes in our brothers' (and sisters') eyes.

But it's OK for you to force your beliefs on them?
Were those in favor of civil rights "forcing their beliefs" on people who were against them? No one can make you like or support equal rights for gays - but our Country should not be making laws based only on religious beliefs.

Marriage is a man and a woman. If you are concerned about your Christian life, you should be an activist for that. All of the Disciples were.
None of the Disciples advocated against equal rights for gay people. Neither will I.

What if it is you and your counterparts in the non and anti Christian camps that are ALL misguided?
It is possible. But I act out of love, trying to gain rights for a minority I feel needs to be fully recognized by the legal system as fellow human beings.

And "your side" seeks what? To prevent a group from using a legal term that you feel is "sacred" in your religion - even though that term has changed many times in the past.

YOU, have not one shred of scripture to "be" a Christian supporting gay activism.
"Love thy neighbor as thyself."

You have not one place in all of anatomey, physiology and biology to champion same-gender sex.
Except for the pleasure centers in the human anus? And the fact that other animals also appear to occasionally have homosexuals among them.

Where do we go from here?
Disney World? *wink*

*sigh* I'm afraid I don't get you, Polycarp_fan. On occasion you make some really good points, and I see potential for really great and challenging debate with you. But you so rarely let me see your more intellectual side. *sigh*
 
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If one believes that humans were created by God, then one assumes that God created us with a sex drive for a reason. Feeling attraction to other humans is natural, enjoying sex is natural. Lust is a natural emotion.

The knowledge of good end evil. God doesn't appear to like puppets. And we certainy will not tolerate a puppet master. Otherwise King David would have been smoked the second time he looked at Bathsheba bathing.

Like I as a parent do not want my children having to have me live their lives for them. And anyway, we seem to have an instinctive response to be free.

I mean, if God didn't want humans to lust, He would have made sure that we can not.

Puppet Master God. No bueno.

You are free to stifle your impulse to lust if you feel it is best for you.

It can save your life and the life of someone else.

But others need to resist temptations under their own will power. It is not our job as Christians to point out the motes in our brothers' (and sisters') eyes.

Where is that written? In my Bible, we are to remove the beam from our eye "and then" go and help our brothers with theirs. Isn't that what Jesus said?

Were those in favor of civil rights "forcing their beliefs" on people who were against them? No one can make you like or support equal rights for gays - but our Country should not be making laws based only on religious beliefs.

Prop 8 was decided by democracy.

None of the Disciples advocated against equal rights for gay people. Neither will I.

Without doubt you are wrong. It's just impossible to posit that the Apostles promoted oir condoned gay sex. In fact we see the exact opposite. They most certainly taught against same gender sex acts to be engaged in by believers. Start a new thread on that subject and I will be more than happy to post the scripture.

It is possible. But I act out of love, trying to gain rights for a minority I feel needs to be fully recognized by the legal system as fellow human beings.

A man is already a fully recognized human being. A woman is already a fully recognized human being. What sex acts they desire to engage in is not a minority qualifier.

And "your side" seeks what? To prevent a group from using a legal term that you feel is "sacred" in your religion - even though that term has changed many times in the past.

We desire to stop the Gay Agenda in its tracks. Out of the schools once and for all forever.

"Love thy neighbor as thyself."

And Jesus said encouraging people to sin is a worse sin than just sinning.

Except for the pleasure centers in the human anus?

There is no normal reason to be penetrating the anus. Only for a medical exam maybe, but that's it. That is an absolute fact. Call any doctor and see.

And the fact that other animals also appear to occasionally have homosexuals among them.

Comparing humans to unreasoning beasts engaging in aberrant behavior is not painting gay activism in a good light at all.

Disney World? *wink*

I'd have to see what day it is. They seem to have a gay day about every other day. I have my kids in private school for a reason. They can get introduced to debauchery when they're are a bit older.

*sigh* I'm afraid I don't get you, Polycarp_fan. On occasion you make some really good points, and I see potential for really great and challenging debate with you. But you so rarely let me see your more intellectual side. *sigh*

That side of me is far more oppositional to gay activism and gay activists than my rather rough persona. There is no room for error at all. Trust me on that. Satan is a very real issue to a real Christian. I've already beeen called to do work on dismantling Newsweeks gay marriage issue. There is no such thing as same-gender marriage from the Biblical perspective. To try to present that there is, is a base lie. Why don't you start a thread on the issue and I will contend against it intellectually.
 
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That side of me is far more oppositional to gay activism and gay activists than my rather rough persona.
That is not how things appear to be from my point of view.

But everyone views themself differently from how others view them. I don't know how I appear to be to other people (unless they tell me).

There are already enough threads about homosexuality in the forum. When some of them "die off" I might start another one about the Bible and homosexuality. Though I believe the two of us have stated most of our opinions on the matter previously, in older threads.
 
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