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leaving flatmate, need advice

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I know it seems stoopid, 4 months later... more silliness is going on [different roommate]. But the situation is that me and my roommate are having trouble.

seeing as the apartment is a 1bed/1bath, each night I get woken up and can't go back to sleep easily [flatmate has the bedroom, i get the living room]. Plus bad decisions keep on getting made [instead of talking about how to pay for things, flatmate just goes off and does stuff]. So as a result, i've decided to move back to my dad's. He's [dad] said that it's ok and if i need to do so I can.

does anyone have any advice in terms of how to go about this? This is pretty much the first time this has had to happen.
 

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Advice about going about it? As in telling the roommate? Just tell him that due to situations going on, you need to move back with your family for a while.

Thanks, NT. My roommate's sick tonight [as in , in bed, sleeping for the evening.] I'm going to talk with him tomorrow night once I return from cleaning my dad's up a bit more.
He will be very upset, but as he has had a history of taking some of my stuff [laundry hampers, food [from my private supply], etc.] without permission and exploding at people needlessly, I think this is going to be for the best.
 
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