A lot of how the WELS feels about things depends on the motive behind them.
I'm in your boat. I have a 12 year old, two babies and one on the way. After this last baby is born, we are taking permanent steps ourselves because we realize that we just can't afford any more children. It is a responsible decision to make.
I'm married to a staunch WELS doctrine preacher-man, so if the WELS was against measures like this, he would be against them. He's even willing to get the procedure done instead of me, simply because he heard that there are many risks with the woman getting tied and fried.
The leaders of the WELS had a change in thought in contraception in the 1960's. However, before that, it was condemned as a sin:
This article is from the Lutheran Witness, June 26, 1917.
It is a reprint from the WELS publication, the Northwestern Lutheran and is in the public domain.
Birth Control a Curse.
The world is stricken with reform madness. To the reformers of our time nothing is so sacred that it must not be tampered with. Institutions that have grown old with the world and are of divine origin must needs submit to the activity of the “reformer”; nor can God expect anything else: where He Himself has been “reformed” out of existence, His institutions can hardly expect to be spared. One of the reformers of to-day makes the following statement: “It now seems to many people that the time has come to take childbirth out of the realm of chance, that the birth of human beings is too important to be left to irresponsible nature.” How wide-spread the reform movement referred to has become may be understood when the reformers assert: “To-day men if high standing, scientists of international reputation, physicians, psychologists, political economists, sociologists, and literati advocate birth control as a counter-move against poverty and disease.”
Every Christian will readily perceive that this “reform” is a curse to the individual and the State. Dwelling on this point, a Roman Catholic writer says: “Duty and conscientiousness are to throw their mantle of protection over practices that tamper with the very fountains of life and defy the will of the Creator to the destruction of individual, family, and State as exemplified in the fall of pagan Rome.”
Church people are, however, not the only ones who are becoming alarmed at the activity of these reformers. The subject was discussed before a gathering of club-women at Chicago recently, and, addressing the club, Mrs. Leonora Z. Meder said the following:
“Birth control is making us a retrogressive people, returning to the days of Sodom and Gomorrah.” “Birth control is immoral, degrading, and stupid. It is a perversion of a natural faculty; it logically and inevitably leads to deliberate childless marriages; it does not attain its purpose of human welfare, and leads to luxurious vice, compared to which the suffering involved in rearing children is a blessing, indeed.
“It is better to improve the economic conditions of the poor than to attempt to remedy matters by decreasing the numbers.
“Statistics compiled in Chicago show that in almost every case where divorces were sought the applicants where either childless or had only one child.
“Theodore Roosevelt compiled these facts, showing that fertility and genius are compatible: Horace Walpole, one of nineteen children ; Benjamin Franklin, one of seventeen ; Peter the Great, one of fourteen ; Napoleon Bonaparte, one of thirteen ; Walter Scott, one of twelve ; Cooper, one of twelve ; Tennyson, one of twelve ; Washington, one of ten ; Webster, one of ten ; Cleveland, one of nine ; Dickens, one of eight ; Longfellow, one of eight ; Milton and Emerson, one of six.
“Genius is rarely found where there is one child. You have only to visit the asylums at Elgin, Kankakee, and Dunning to see the appalling ruin of mind and body brought on by the heinous practise of birth control. Eighty-five per cent. of the women in Chicago hospitals are ill as a direct or indirect result of the same practise.”
This article caused a debate on Lutherquest, which can be read in the following link:
lutherquest . org/discus40/messages/41821/44701 . html