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By Peter McWilliams

Many years ago, Norman Cousins was diagnosed as "terminally ill." He was given six months to live. His chance for recovery was one in 500.
He could see that the worry, depression and anger in his life contributed to, and perhaps helped cause, his disease. He wondered, "If illness can be caused by negativity, can wellness be created by positivity?"
He decided to make an experiment of himself. Laughter was one of the most positive activities he knew. He rented all the funny movies he could find - Keaton, Chaplin, Fields, the Marx Brothers. (This was before VCRs, so he had to rent the actual films.) He read funny stories. He asked his friends to call him whenever they said, heard or did something funny.
His pain was so great he could not sleep. Laughing for 10 solid minutes, he found, relieved the pain for several hours so he could sleep.
He fully recovered from his illness and lived another 20 happy, healthy and productive years. (His journey is detailed in his book, Anatomy of an Illness.) He credits visualization, the love of his family and friends, and laughter for his recovery.
Some people think laughter is a waste of time. It is a luxury, they say, a frivolity, something to indulge in only every so often.
Nothing could be further from the truth. Laughter is essential to our equilibrium, to our well-being, to our aliveness. If we're not well, laughter helps us get well; if we are well, laughter helps us stay that way.
Since Cousins' ground-breaking subjective work, scientific studies have shown that laughter has a curative effect on the body, the mind and the emotions.
So, if you like laughter, consider it sound medical advice to indulge in it as often as you can. If you don't like laughter, then take your medicine - laugh anyway.
Use whatever makes you laugh - movies, sitcoms, Monty Python, records, books, New Yorker cartoons, jokes, friends.
Give yourself permission to laugh - long and loud and out loud - whenever anything strikes you as funny. The people around you may think you're strange, but sooner or later they'll join in even if they don't know what you're laughing about.
Some diseases may be contagious, but none is as contagious as the cure...laughter.
 

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Ziwei said:
Nice. But sadly I reflect on how I do not laugh much....

We should all laugh, if not for ourselves, then at least to brighten someone else's day.
A child laughs while they run around blowing bubbles into the sky. You can't help but smile to yourself when you see something like that.
In the same type of way, as children of God, we should laugh and be joyous about the things that He has created.
There are a lot of situations where laughter isn't the best option (like in Russia a few hours ago), but for all the problems and ill deeds done in this world, God provides us with reasons to laugh and smile.

:) Smile and God Bless,
Steffi
 
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ftre2k4 said:
You should tell that story to my dad:) ,he is not much of a "laughing" person at all;) . But he does have his times, so dont worry:thumbsup: .

Lol, I've already passed the story on - now it's your turn! Have fun.
Smile and God Bless,
Steffi :clap:
 
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Dont worry I will share this story with others expecially my DAD;)


I know this is off topic but how do you get that thing at the bottom of your post were you can write stuff like you have Steffi

were it says

I live in a dream, and I'm scared of waking, but You, Lord, give me courage. :bow:

There is a marvelous story of a man who once stood before God, his heart breaking from the pain and injustice in the world. "Dear God", he cried out, "Look at all the suffering, the anguish and distress in the world. Why don't you send help?

God replied, "I did -
I sent you
 
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