Ladies only thread

[Life2Christ]

This is something Im pondering tonight:
1.How many men have ever told you that you were beautiful? (include your father if it applies)

2.) Does the number matter to you?

3.). How does that effect your self esteem?

4.) Has anyone ever ranked you on a scale from 1 to 10?


Me:
1.) one man (not my father)
2.) yes it matters. The one man who ever thought I was beautiful dumped me.
3.) self esteem is only positive when God is involved.
4.) yes. I got ranked in high school by a gay guy.

 

[blackribbon]

I'm going to answer in paragraph form. I don't know if anyone ever called me "beautiful" or not...I kind of doubt it because even at my best, I was more "cute" and bubbly. My husband called me sexy...and although, I don't think I believed it, I never doubted that he thought it...it showed in his eyes.

I don't need to hear it but I do need to see it in my guy's eyes. I need to see them light up when I walk into the room and then it doesn't matter what anyone else thinks. I have seen it in every guy that I dated for any real length of time...so I never thought I was beautiful but a few guys must have.

I do have a friend who we are absolutely not a match (he would agree completely), but he does look at me like he appreciates me. I don't get that very much anymore...so I do notice it when I see it.

I won't ever get married again unless I both see that look ... and know that my eyes reflect the same kind of appreciate for him. I'd rather be alone.

I think that look really means they see the me that is inside and isn't so much about the package.

 

[memoriesbymichelle]

This is something Im pondering tonight:
1.How many men have ever told you that you were beautiful? (include your father if it applies) 3 maybe?

2.) Does the number matter to you? Nope

3.). How does that effect your self esteem? It doesn't. I know I'm beautiful

4.) Has anyone ever ranked you on a scale from 1 to 10? Not to my face, or to my knowledge


Me:
1.) one man (not my father)
2.) yes it matters. The one man who ever thought I was beautiful dumped me.
3.) self esteem is only positive when God is involved.
4.) yes. I got ranked in high school by a gay guy.