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How about:
1) Don't pay them any attention- If they are God's chice then He will make it happen even if you ignore the guy.
2) Don't try and look nice- hell don't even bother to shower- if you make too much effort then he won't see you for who you really are, and he shouldn't care about appearences anyway.
Number 3 is the hard one though...
Should it be:
Continue to ignore the guy and show no intrest but pray to God that if the guy is His choice then he'll still ask you out...
or
When God tells you yes, march up to the guy and say it's the Lords will that you two get married (and yes that does happen- luckly not to me but it's happened to a friend on a couple of occasions- including when his then fiance, now wife, was sitting next to him!)
How about:
1) Don't pay them any attention- If they are God's chice then He will make it happen even if you ignore the guy.
2) Don't try and look nice- hell don't even bother to shower- if you make too much effort then he won't see you for who you really are, and he shouldn't care about appearences anyway.
Number 3 is the hard one though...
Should it be:
Continue to ignore the guy and show no intrest but pray to God that if the guy is His choice then he'll still ask you out...
or
When God tells you yes, march up to the guy and say it's the Lords will that you two get married (and yes that does happen- luckly not to me but it's happened to a friend on a couple of occasions- including when his then fiance, now wife, was sitting next to him!)
Your sense of humor gene must be turned off today.Wow...someone's feeling bitter and hateful today...now that's the way to attract women!
I was watching this TV show and the lady give 3 rules that ladies can follow and get a guy to ask her out.
1. Smile a lot- it shows that you are approachable, intrested, friendly and not stuck up.
2. Give compliments- Guys love complimets. You can compliment him on his clothes or smiles.
3. Find a way to make the guy ask u out. For example : you can ask him about a new movie, resturant or music just so he can ask u to go with him to see this new film, concert ...
What is your opinion about the rules ? Guys feel free to comment too ?
That's a rather snap judgment. What if she snags a guy this way and gets married to him?Where's God in these "rules"?
They sound like more of man's ways combined with desperation. I sure dont' want to be in a relationship out of desperation ever again!
It also sounds like not thinking about the future and just thinking about "my happiness right now."
Also, coming up with ways to get the guy to ask you out sounds pretty deceptive, and also like God isn't in the center of it.
My opinion on the rules:I was watching this TV show and the lady give 3 rules that ladies can follow and get a guy to ask her out.
1. Smile a lot- it shows that you are approachable, intrested, friendly and not stuck up.
2. Give compliments- Guys love complimets. You can compliment him on his clothes or smiles.
3. Find a way to make the guy ask u out. For example : you can ask him about a new movie, resturant or music just so he can ask u to go with him to see this new film, concert ...
What is your opinion about the rules ? Guys feel free to comment too ?
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The last part is just way too much work to replace simple open communication. I can/do admire chivalry and prefer it, but why should we have to leave signals around and wait for the guy to ask all the time.
My first thought was the same as Becky's. Smiling and complimenting won't get you anywhere if he doesn't think you're pretty.
If you actually like someone doesn't all this stuff happen naturally anyway??
I was watching this TV show and the lady give 3 rules that ladies can follow and get a guy to ask her out.
1. Smile a lot- it shows that you are approachable, intrested, friendly and not stuck up.
2. Give compliments- Guys love complimets. You can compliment him on his clothes or smiles.
3. Find a way to make the guy ask u out. For example : you can ask him about a new movie, resturant or music just so he can ask u to go with him to see this new film, concert ...
What is your opinion about the rules ? Guys feel free to comment too ?
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