Kidnappers

[VinceBlaze]

Hi there.

I sometimes feel bad due to my father. He married this guy my age, because I wouldn't have a physical relationship with him. They prefer little boys together, and my father's husband is in jail now for kidnapping. After my father's husband went to jail, my father attempted stuff on me, but I broke away and left his house. I hadn't talked to him for forteen years before that, so I was sorta distraught when I found that he still wanted to have a physical relationship with me after all that time.

Thanks much.

 

[debbo1387]

i am so sorry that you have to go threw that with you father who is supposed to be the person you can look up to well if you wanna talk i will come back here and post again

 

[VinceBlaze]

Oh thanks much. I avoided getting together with him for father's day recently. It's been a few years since I've seen him in person. Anyway, time for me to head to the doctor's office. Hope to chat again soon if you still want to.

Blessings

Vince

 

[goldenviolet]

bless your heart Vince. staying away from him is right. sometimes family is too toxic and must be avoided.
you truely are a survivor. good job of caring for yourself. you have to when a parent won't. just keep yourself a survivor!

 

[Mling]

There is no shame in staying away from people who are harmful to you. Even, and especially, if they are family. Anybody would be "sorta distraught" to find themself in that position.

 

[VinceBlaze]

bless your heart Vince. staying away from him is right. sometimes family is too toxic and must be avoided.
you truely are a survivor. good job of caring for yourself. you have to when a parent won't. just keep yourself a survivor!

I believe that staying away from toxic family members is very important (although sometimes tough to do). It's like exposing oneself to a cold. A person might try to resist getting a cold with all thier will, but if they are too close to other people who all have colds, the person will invariably get themself sick too. So I prefer to stay away.

 

[VinceBlaze]

There is no shame in staying away from people who are harmful to you. Even, and especially, if they are family. Anybody would be "sorta distraught" to find themself in that position.

I have to agree with you. I think we are often more affected by family members than non-family members, so it's even more imperative to get away from family members sometimes. Non-family members, even if they are toxic, usually don't have the same influence on us as toxic family members.

 

[thepianist]

Hi there.

I sometimes feel bad due to my father. He married this guy my age, because I wouldn't have a physical relationship with him. They prefer little boys together, and my father's husband is in jail now for kidnapping. After my father's husband went to jail, my father attempted stuff on me, but I broke away and left his house. I hadn't talked to him for forteen years before that, so I was sorta distraught when I found that he still wanted to have a physical relationship with me after all that time.

Thanks much.

I'm so very sorry for what you have to be going through with this mess!!! Please know that you have my prayers......

 

[VinceBlaze]

I'm so very sorry for what you have to be going through with this mess!!! Please know that you have my prayers......

Thank you for your concern.