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Just some help!

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Earlier this year I was engaged to a handsome young Anglican from England that I thought would chase away all of my problems. But, we started to develop problems between us and I broke up with him. However, that does not stop me from reading his livejournal or talking to his friends, which is how I discovered he needed a little help.

Theo is struggling with just about everything, and is losing.

He is struggling with sexual impurity, finding himself growing more attached to girls half his age (around the 12-13 age) and men twice his age (in the forties, at LEAST). He is finding comfort in punishment, growing more and more masochistic with each passing day. And he is trying so hard to not give in, but is failing miserably.

With each passing day he becomes less and less peaceful, kind and gentle. I've even seen him write things down that I know for a fact he didn't think even two months ago.

He's questioning his religion and not finding any answers, and the people he's befriended are not only supporting his turn away from believing the bible but encouraging it! And they claim to be Christians!

I know I haven't been in this forum very much, I've had a busy life since I last made contact, but he really needs help. And I need peace of mind, because even though it makes no sense, I blame myself for everything that's happening to him.
 

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Lord please help this man who is lost to become saved in you and live according to your will and plan and that they will accept you as their Savior & Lord and repent of their sins and ask for your forgiveness. Amen!!
 
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lady_of_god said:
Lord we bring Theo to You in prayer. Lord you know all that is going on with him and we ask that you let Your presence to be known to him. Renew him in the Spirit and guide him Lord. Let Your Will be done. In Jesus name Amen.

:amen:

Praying with you
 
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Star_Pixels said:
Earlier this year I was engaged to a handsome young Anglican from England that I thought would chase away all of my problems. But, we started to develop problems between us and I broke up with him. However, that does not stop me from reading his livejournal or talking to his friends, which is how I discovered he needed a little help.

Theo is struggling with just about everything, and is losing.

He is struggling with sexual impurity, finding himself growing more attached to girls half his age (around the 12-13 age) and men twice his age (in the forties, at LEAST). He is finding comfort in punishment, growing more and more masochistic with each passing day. And he is trying so hard to not give in, but is failing miserably.

With each passing day he becomes less and less peaceful, kind and gentle. I've even seen him write things down that I know for a fact he didn't think even two months ago.

He's questioning his religion and not finding any answers, and the people he's befriended are not only supporting his turn away from believing the bible but encouraging it! And they claim to be Christians!

I know I haven't been in this forum very much, I've had a busy life since I last made contact, but he really needs help. And I need peace of mind, because even though it makes no sense, I blame myself for everything that's happening to him.

Was wondering if Theo is the same Theo that has been around here at Cf for some time now? If so can we chat a moment? If it's the same Theo I know, I had no idea. He never seemed to be that type of guy around me, if I had a known, I could had already talked to him, and prayed with him. Keeping Theo in my prayers.

Thank you

God Bless You,

XX Angelface XX
 
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God when two or more are gathered in Your name...

We commit Theo and Star_Pixel to you. May you strengthen them both, show them Your way, and help them through the trials they face. It's only when we rely on You that you show us a way through them. God, in Your Holy Son's name, Jesus, can we overcome ANY obstacle in our life! Theo, Star_Pixel...put on God's armor...it's ready for you to use, and it's the perfect size! This life is a battle...and when you become a Christian, the battle puts you at the FRONT of the Front Lines. You can do it! Father, hold them, and show them how to be restored!
 
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I pray for this young man, Theo, Lord, that he'll turn back to You for freedom from these doubts, and that You'll set him free from these obsessions. Open him up to You again, Lord. I pray for Star_Pixels, and for others around him. Give them the wisdom and the words to use so that Theo knows there are people who care for him, and who don't want to see him on the path he's on.

Amen

:prayer:
 
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