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SolitarySoul

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I could really use a hug tonight :(. My ex girlfriend and her fiance, the guy she left me for, seem to be taking every chance they get to verbally attack me and talk down about me to others. I never did anything to them in the first place, she forged a brilliant story to cover up the fact that she left me for someone else, making it all look like it's my fault :cry:. I've done my best to just ignore it but it really gets me down, and sometimes I slip and just try to witness to them (they both call themselves Christians, but it is obvious they aren't saved) but they respond in a very rude and insulting way. Please pray for them if you don't mind and please pray that I will just continue to love and forgive them, it is so hard when you know someone is saying so many untrue things about you. It's even harder when you see someone you care for decieved like this.
 
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:hug: :hug: :hug: to you, SolitarySoul. I am sorry that your so-called "Christian" ex-girlfriend and her fiance are not even attempting to act in a Christ-like manner. I hope that they are both guided back into God's loving embrace soon. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.
 
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I could really use a hug tonight :(. My ex girlfriend and her fiance, the guy she left me for, seem to be taking every chance they get to verbally attack me and talk down about me to others. I never did anything to them in the first place, she forged a brilliant story to cover up the fact that she left me for someone else, making it all look like it's my fault :cry:. I've done my best to just ignore it but it really gets me down, and sometimes I slip and just try to witness to them (they both call themselves Christians, but it is obvious they aren't saved) but they respond in a very rude and insulting way. Please pray for them if you don't mind and please pray that I will just continue to love and forgive them, it is so hard when you know someone is saying so many untrue things about you. It's even harder when you see someone you care for decieved like this.
Maybe you should try to stay away from them, if their relationship is painful for you to see and they aren't treating you very nicely. Hugs!!!
 
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I could really use a hug tonight :(. My ex girlfriend and her fiance, the guy she left me for, seem to be taking every chance they get to verbally attack me and talk down about me to others. I never did anything to them in the first place, she forged a brilliant story to cover up the fact that she left me for someone else, making it all look like it's my fault :cry:. I've done my best to just ignore it but it really gets me down, and sometimes I slip and just try to witness to them (they both call themselves Christians, but it is obvious they aren't saved) but they respond in a very rude and insulting way. Please pray for them if you don't mind and please pray that I will just continue to love and forgive them, it is so hard when you know someone is saying so many untrue things about you. It's even harder when you see someone you care for decieved like this.
*hugs* Lord, we see that our dear brother is suffering silently inside watching the one he loved be deceived in this manner. Let the rude things they say not cut as deeply as they could dear Lord. Help SolitarySoul to mend his broken heart and know that You have a purpose for everything that takes place oh Lord. Help his to forgive them and heal from the pain that he has experienced. Let his ex-girlfriend and fiance move on and leave him alone so that he can get on with his life and find bigger and better things to live out the will You have for him oh Lord. Comfort him and know he is not alone. You will always be one to lean on when all else seems to fall away. Be the friend he needs when he feels like he is all alone. Put a shield around him oh Lord and defend him against all evils and rumors that surround him. Be there for him oh Lord and walk beside him in all his ways. In Jesus' name I pray. Amen.
 
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Jo1...Sorry to hear you are feeling so loney. I know what it is like to have your hubby working all the time...NOT NICE!! Big hugs :hug: to you. We haven't forgotten about you! By the way, did things work out o.k on your anniversary? Hope so :prayer: .
hi mask bless you for replying:hug: im just having a bad day today.:(
anniversary went ok in the end thanks for asking bless you.love Jo:hug: :hug: :hug: :hug:
 
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Jo1...Sorry to hear you are feeling so loney. I know what it is like to have your hubby working all the time...NOT NICE!! Big hugs :hug: to you. We haven't forgotten about you! By the way, did things work out o.k on your anniversary? Hope so :prayer: .
I hope this is the correct way yhanks again for the advice
 
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hugs to everyone here.:hug:
could use one too. feel a bit down and lonely.:( :sigh: daves had to work again this morning. im on my own i think the world has just forgotten me. :( thanks

*hugs* The Lord will never leave nor forsake you. We are always here for you too with lots of hugs!

I need a hug today as well. I'm worried that I'm going to fail one of my classes this semester. Someone tell me it's going to be okay, please.

*hugs* Of course everything will be ok! You will pass the class! Just ask the Lord for wisdom to do well on your final tests and assignments.
 
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*sends everyone squeezy superhero snuggles*

I'm not doing great tonight. I guess that's a given, since it's nighttime, and things always go poorly then. Bipolar cycling I guess, or something. But still... just because it's regular doesn't mean that it doesn't hurt, and that's something that people just don't seem to get. I.e., my parents. And no one can fix me. Heh. :( :sigh:
 
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