• Starting today August 7th, 2024, in order to post in the Married Couples, Courting Couples, or Singles forums, you will not be allowed to post if you have your Marital status designated as private. Announcements will be made in the respective forums as well but please note that if yours is currently listed as Private, you will need to submit a ticket in the Support Area to have yours changed.

  • CF has always been a site that welcomes people from different backgrounds and beliefs to participate in discussion and even debate. That is the nature of its ministry. In view of recent events emotions are running very high. We need to remind people of some basic principles in debating on this site. We need to be civil when we express differences in opinion. No personal attacks. Avoid you, your statements. Don't characterize an entire political party with comparisons to Fascism or Communism or other extreme movements that committed atrocities. CF is not the place for broad brush or blanket statements about groups and political parties. Put the broad brushes and blankets away when you come to CF, better yet, put them in the incinerator. Debate had no place for them. We need to remember that people that commit acts of violence represent themselves or a small extreme faction.
  • We hope the site problems here are now solved, however, if you still have any issues, please start a ticket in Contact Us

  • The rule regarding AI content has been updated. The rule now rules as follows:

    Be sure to credit AI when copying and pasting AI sources. Link to the site of the AI search, just like linking to an article.

Grace_Alone4gives

Well-Known Member
Apr 4, 2003
895
34
63
Odessa TX
✟1,245.00
Faith
Protestant
1. Where did you go on your first date?

2 What day did you become engaged?

3. Who does most of the cleaning around the house?

4. Who does the most yard work?

5. What is your most embarassing moment as a couple? (keep it clean :))

6. How many blow-outs (not wee little bickerings) have you had since marraige?

7. Who initiates intimacy more?

8. Wifes largest pet peeve about husband (and vise versa):

9. Wifes favorite characteristic about husband (and vise versa).

10. Most memorable moment as a couple.



It is also fun to test your spouce on these questions and see how well you match in answers
;)
 

searle29678

Wife, Daughter, Sister, and Friend
Dec 14, 2004
2,566
201
44
South Carolina
✟3,719.00
Faith
Christian
Marital Status
Married
Politics
US-Republican
1. Where did you go on your first date?


We rented a hotel room (with two beds) and watched tv and ate pizza.
2 What day did you become engaged?


Don't remember the exact day, but it was December of 1999.
3. Who does most of the cleaning around the house?


I do...but it is almost better that way, because I like to know it's clean.
4. Who does the most yard work?
Our landlord takes care of all that, but Robert would if the landlord didn't do it.

5. What is your most embarassing moment as a couple? (keep it clean :))

Well....the first night that I spent the night with him in the same bed (we weren't married yet) he got up to get some water and I thought he was still gone and I passed gas. I must have been half dreaming because he was laying right beside me laughing when I realized what happened.
6. How many blow-outs (not wee little bickerings) have you had since marraige?

Goodness! At least 20.
7. Who initiates intimacy more?

He does.
8. Wifes largest pet peeve about husband (and vise versa):

He is extremely messy!

9. Wifes favorite characteristic about husband (and vise versa).

He loves to laugh.
10. Most memorable moment as a couple.
The day after we got married, we just looked at each other. That moment is something I will always remember. It was like "Man, after all this time we finally said we were gonna do this." It was amazing.</FONT>
 
Upvote 0

Lorie

Active Member
Jul 20, 2004
127
3
✟287.00
Faith
Christian
1. I do not remember our first date
2. I cant even tell u what month it wasthat we got engaged
3. we both clean
4. he does yard work
5. no embarsing moment
6. we never fight
7. he always wants sex, i could care less about it
8. no pet peve & i dont know if he has one about me
9. best characteristic, he helps with the kids and the house
10. dont have a memorable moment

I wish i had other answers to these questions!
 
Upvote 0

LiberatedChick

Contributor
Jun 28, 2004
5,057
189
UK
✟28,789.00
Gender
Female
Faith
Anglican
Marital Status
Married
1. Where did you go on your first date?

We went to see Notting Hill at the cinema

2 What day did you become engaged?

It was Tuesday 2nd November 1999

3. Who does most of the cleaning around the house?

I do

4. Who does the most yard work?
We don't have a garden but we'd probably share the work equally if we did.

5. What is your most embarassing moment as a couple? (keep it clean :))

I can't think of anything squeaky clean so it has to be realising that our neighbours have probably heard us being umm a bit loud when in the bedroom.

6. How many blow-outs (not wee little bickerings) have you had since marraige?

None. We've never have had any big fights.

7. Who initiates intimacy more?

I think he does slightly more than me.

8. Wifes largest pet peeve about husband (and vise versa):

I don't like sharing pet peeves about my hubby.

9. Wifes favorite characteristic about husband (and vise versa).

He's laid back, a good cook and makes me laugh.

10. Most memorable moment as a couple.

The day we got married. After being engaged for so long once our wedding day arrived it felt like a dream.



 
Upvote 0

Zoomer

Well-Known Member
Jun 29, 2004
3,500
229
Visit site
✟27,330.00
Faith
Lutheran
Marital Status
Married
Politics
US-Libertarian
1. Where did you go on your first date? We went to a club.

2 What day did you become engaged?
No particular day, we just decided.

3. Who does most of the cleaning around the house?
I do, but my husband does help out alot.

4. Who does the most yard work?
My husband, but I help out when needed.

5. What is your most embarassing moment as a couple? (keep it clean :)) Someone walking in on us being intimate.

6. How many blow-outs (not wee little bickerings) have you had since marraige?
Quite a few, we are both very stubborn people but thankfully also very forgiving.

7. Who initiates intimacy more?
I'd say my husband.

8. Wifes largest pet peeve about husband (and vise versa):
He can be very stubborn.

9. Wifes favorite characteristic about husband (and vise versa).
His humor.

10. Most memorable moment as a couple.
When we became parents for the first time, we were both crying.
 
Upvote 0

LynnMcG

A reflection of the Son
Sep 20, 2004
4,171
297
58
New Jersey
Visit site
✟28,467.00
Faith
Christian
Marital Status
Married
Politics
US-Republican
Grace_Alone4gives said:
1. Where did you go on your first date?

Gary's Vernon Lodge for beers

Grace_Alone4gives said:
2 What day did you become engaged?
January 21, 1995

Grace_Alone4gives said:
3. Who does most of the cleaning around the house?
me

Grace_Alone4gives said:
4. Who does the most yard work?
him

Grace_Alone4gives said:
5. What is your most embarassing moment as a couple? (keep it clean :))
Can't think of a clean one!

Grace_Alone4gives said:
6. How many blow-outs (not wee little bickerings) have you had since marraige?
In 10 years, maybe a dozen. Maybe less. God has blessed me with forgetfullness in these matters!

Grace_Alone4gives said:
7. Who initiates intimacy more?
We're pretty well balanced in that area. We sort of sense each other's needs I think.

Grace_Alone4gives said:
8. Wifes largest pet peeve about husband (and vise versa):
He rags about stuff! When something is bothering my husband he just goes on and on. I got it the first time! (he knows this, I've told him before)

Grace_Alone4gives said:
9. Wifes favorite characteristic about husband (and vise versa).
I love how he loves me. Isn't that ridiculous?! But he's so sweet! He just makes me feel so beautiful.

Grace_Alone4gives said:
10. Most memorable moment as a couple.
That's tough. It was either the day our daughter was born, because she was our first. Or the day our son was born, because it was the single-most frightening day of both our lives because both my son and I almost died.



 
Upvote 0

Singin4Him

Here I am Lord, send me!
Jul 31, 2004
3,446
298
43
Texas
✟27,530.00
Faith
Baptist
Marital Status
Married
Politics
US-Republican
1. Where did you go on your first date? To play miniature golf. Olive Garden, and a lake near our the University we both go to to walk around the lake and talk.

2 What day did you become engaged? Sept 20, 2003

3. Who does most of the cleaning around the house? I do, but my husband helps A LOT

4. Who does the most yard work? My husband

5. What is your most embarassing moment as a couple? (keep it clean :)) hmmm...I'm not sure, neither of us really get embarrassed easy

6. How many blow-outs (not wee little bickerings) have you had since marraige? Maybe one or two,but I'm not sure what your definition of a "blow-out" is because it wasn't bickering but it wasn't anything close to regretting marriage or anything

7. Who initiates intimacy more? Psychical: my husband and Emotional: Me

8. Wifes largest pet peeve about husband (and vise versa): That he tends to procrastinate a bit

9. Wifes favorite characteristic about husband (and vise versa). He puts God first and strives to grow in Christ daily

10. Most memorable moment as a couple.

Our wedding and Honeymoon

 
Upvote 0

suzybeezy

Reports Manager
Nov 1, 2004
56,899
4,485
57
USA
✟82,735.00
Faith
Christian
Marital Status
Married
1. Where did you go on your first date? He asked me about several times and I turned him down. Finally one night when I didn't have anything better to do, my mom convinced me to go. We went to a local restaurant, nothing fancy, and had the best time. I was so surprised I liked him. The date stretched on for hours.

2 What day did you become engaged? On my birthday, he gave me the engagement ring as my present. I told him I'd never get married again (I was divorced from an abusive relationship), but when he was on his knee with tears rolling down his face, saying the most beautiful words I'd ever heard, I said yes.

3. Who does most of the cleaning around the house? The chores are evenly divided among all members of the household. We keep a chore list for everyone, including the kids.

4. Who does the most yard work? My husband and eldest son.

5. What is your most embarassing moment as a couple? (keep it clean :)) We like to bake together and one time we were making peanut butter cookies together and instead of putting in teaspoon of baking soda we put in tablespoons and then served them without realizing they were horribly salty. Our guest about died.

6. How many blow-outs (not wee little bickerings) have you had since marraige? Many many many when we first got married, especially the first year. There was alot of adjusting to do. I thank the Lord, my husband is a patient man, and we persevered through the first years and have adjusted into a happy marriage.

7. Who initiates intimacy more? Definitely ME. We apparently have different drives and I am after that guy all the time.


8. Wifes largest pet peeve about husband (and vise versa): He is too quiet. And I know his biggest pet peeve of me would be: She talks too much. Funny, huh?

9. Wifes favorite characteristic about husband (and vise versa). My favorite characteristic is he's the complete opposite of me. He would probably say the same. We compliment each other so well.

10. Most memorable moment as a couple. The day we took our kids to Disney World. My husband had never traveled, at all. It took us alot of saving, but when we drove through the gates of Disney World, my husband actually wept. It was so amazing to see the pride in his eyes. Pride that he was able to give his children something he never had as a child. It was amazing. I also knew in that moment it was only the beginning of what would come in our future, more happy times.
 
Upvote 0