Jumping the Gun?

[TG39051]

I've been with my SO for almost 4 months now and everything is leading toward us being together forever. I have a three-year-old daughter and have kept all of her good baby clothes (8 totes FULL) in hopes that I would have another child - possibly another girl. My SO cannot have anymore children (he already has two girls - 9 and 7). I've given all of my daughter's baby/play things to his sister for her baby.

I'm just curious if I'm jumping the gun in getting rid of everything since we wouldn't have another child together or is this just a by-product of my commitment to wanting to be with him? I'm not doing it to prove my commitment to him but because of my commitment to him.

Any thoughts?

 

[joyouspirit]

I've been with my SO for almost 4 months now and everything is leading toward us being together forever. I have a three-year-old daughter and have kept all of her good baby clothes (8 totes FULL) in hopes that I would have another child - possibly another girl. My SO cannot have anymore children (he already has two girls - 9 and 7). I've given all of my daughter's baby/play things to his sister for her baby.

I'm just curious if I'm jumping the gun in getting rid of everything since we wouldn't have another child together or is this just a by-product of my commitment to wanting to be with him? I'm not doing it to prove my commitment to him but because of my commitment to him.

Any thoughts?

I understand how you feel. Like with me before, I told myself I wouldn't get pregnant until i can afford those fashionable maternity clothes. But the babies kept coming..he he.

I have saved some of my youngest daughter's clothes just for keepsake and somebody mistakenly gave it to Goodwill, so oh well I said it is just clothes. Anyway...

I would just want to ask, he can't have babies for he went thru vasectomy or he decided not to have more babies with you. Either way, about the clothes stuff, whatever lies for you in the future, material things can always be replaced and giving those baby clothes to his sister is saying you have a good heart and I'm sure it will never go unnoticed with the ONE up there!!

God bless!!!

 

[TG39051]

He's had a vasectomy and is not one that would have it reversed. We've not had any conversations in that regards, but he's past the baby stage. He's talked about keeping the nursery and babysitting for his sisters, but that is as far as baby talk has gone.

 

[joyouspirit]

Oh ok. I had tubal ligation but it can be reversed. But my husband and I have decided my children, all 4 of them, is his children.

God bless!