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Josh - the memory of my 24 year old stepson

ladyt28

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Josh was one month from turning 25 when he overdosed on drugs on 3/1/07. He had gotten clean and then went back to Florida for a court hearing and fell right back into the drugs.

I hate that his drug use will be the last thing anyone will remember him for. I knew him since he was 13. He never overcame how his sister was murdered when she was 13 - she was 2 years older than he was and I never had a chance to know her. His dad, the man who became my husband, never has really overcome that either and now both of his children are gone.

Josh was a smart young man who was successful with everything he tried. I used to tease him that I never wanted to help him out a resume together as there would be too many things to list - no one would believe all of it but it would have been true! My favorite skill he had was his ability to cook. He started as a helper in a pretty well-established Italian eatery here and soon became head chef!He used to teach me how to make a few things but I never got the chance to learn all that I could have from him.

At 13 he was able to help his dad at the machine shop and could run a Bridgeport without help. At 21 he was running all kinds of construction machinery with total mastery.

Josh attended a Christian school when he was younger. We knew he accepted Christ as his savior and believed in God to his dying day. I know he was a sinner - all of us are. I long for the day we are reunited with him! His loss leaves a hole in my chest that actually howls. He was no "step son", that boy was my SON!

Hate the sin, never stop loving and praying for the sinner.
 

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I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your son. My heart goes out to you and your family. Praying for you and your family. May God give you peace and strength now and always.

Blessed be Josh's memory.

God Bless.

p.s. On a personal note, I lost my 14-year-old brother to suicide 12 years ago and it still bothers me that others just remember him for that instead of the remarkable young man he was.
 
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