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Job Offered

Discussion in 'Trauma, PTSD & Dissociation' started by waves, May 25, 2020.

  1. waves

    waves not so new

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    Jesus Christ showed me in a dream that the father of my children got a media job offer which he accepted to work in a parish very far away from where he is now. Whoever told him he was going to work in that parish, that place that they told him he was going to work in does not exist in this parish, instead that place is in another parish very far from the one they told him. This particular parish has a lot of crime problems. Why would he be offered a job in an area in a parish that does not exist in that parish?

    I also needed to add something else. In another post I explained that my former best friend (Stacy) and her friend (Nikela) purposely attending classes that interest the father of my children in order to manipulate him into liking them. I want to make it clear to him that it is not that I am not interested in what he (the father of my children) does and what is important to him, it is that I am not going to classes for the sole purpose to manipulate him into liking me. The father of my children need to understand that these two women have an agenda.

    One of the things I have observed is, that many women who knows us (the father of my children and me) treat the father of my children good and treat me bad at the same time. I remember Jesus Christ giving me a dream where the father of my children was saying to someone he didn't know why I was angry when people around me kept treating me good. What the father of my children needs to understand is that for years, these people have been ill treating me and the effect of this is not just going to disappear because of all of a sudden they developed a conscience or pretending to develop a conscience . The way that they have treated me for years has had a devastating effect on me mentally and emotionally, so whenever I see them, I get angry and feel extremely hurt because of the way they have treated me.
     
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  2. Arc F1

    Arc F1 Let the righteous man arise from slumber

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    Father of my children? I take it that he is no longer your husband. Pray and live your life for God don't get wrapped up in all the other peoples drama. It will only distract you from what's important.
     
  3. waves

    waves not so new

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    The reason I use the term "father of my children" is because I do not know my status with him. I do not know if we are together, or if we are apart.
     
  4. Tolworth John

    Tolworth John Well-Known Member Supporter

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    Your status is set out legally. If you have a marriage certificate you are married to him.
    If you have divorce papers you are no longer married to him.

    If you have been silly enough to live with him, does he still live in your house?
    If he doesn't you are not together.

    There is only one other consideration, is he paying All the bills?
    If he is not and not living with you, have nothing to do with him, unless he is paying maintenance.
     
  5. LaBèlla

    LaBèlla His will❣️my fate Supporter

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    You have attributed a great deal to the dream. Do you have visible evidence he's seeking employment in that area? If he's job hunting the dream might reference that. But it could also be fear rearing its head.

    No amount of manipulation can make someone like another they aren't attracted to on their own.

    You're contradicting yourself. If you don't concern yourself with his affairs you can't turn around and imply the women have an agenda. You're getting in his business.

    If you're being mistreated and he's silent that's the greater concern.

    ~Bella
     
  6. waves

    waves not so new

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    My alter has absolutely no recollection of anything having to do with the father of my children. The only way I know what happened is because Jesus Christ began revealing to me what was going on a few years ago.
     
  7. waves

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    You do not understand what has being going in my life. Jesus Christ uses dreams to warn me of things happening and things to come, so I take my dreams very seriously. Jesus Christ often reveals to me the heart of persons around me because it is important for me and genuine persons in my life to know the good people from the bad people. Because of the circumstances surrounding my situation, Jesus Christ has had to deal with me in a different way than persons who have never gone through what I have gone through.
     
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