Jimmy P's Funhouse (46)

[MissRowy]

Listening to a song by Hillsong United....heard it yesterday and i love it

 

[James Is Back]

Night folks and as always Love,Adore,Cherish,Enjoy,Honor,Respect,Obey,Glory,Bless,Praise Worship and anything else that is good the Trinity always forever! Have a good night/morning/afternoon/evening everyone!

 

[RuthD]

Gnight people!!

 

[HotRhymez]

Goodnight, world.

 

[MissRowy]

Night! Its 7.25pm here and just over half an hour til my show starts. Might check out some stuff on youtube for a bit then get dinner

 

[James Is Back]

Morning folks and as always Love,Adore,Cherish,Enjoy,Honor,Respect,Obey,Glory,Bless,Praise Worship and anything else that is good the Trinity always forever! How is everyone doing?

 

[Jimmy P]

Hi all...

 

[graciesings]

Is anyone in here? I have a question.... I need advice...

 

[Wandering Cat Lady]

You can PM me if you need to Gracie, always here for you

 

[Jimmy P]

Hey Gracester

 

[graciesings]

Hey hanks to both of you for your kindness.... I haven't been in the thread much but I've been enjoying y'all's company on FB...

So.... After breaking up with the person I really really loved two or three weeks ago, I got into a relationship (if you call it that) with a guy who lives about 20 miles from here. It.... hasn't been a "godly" relationship at all. I'm scared, actually, because a few of the things I did with him last weekend were kinda dangerous.

Anyway: he has money, he often starves for the last week of the month, and his paycheck got delayed.... His car needs repairs and he has no money to repair it. So last weekend I wound up coming to his town, and paying for the date.... Probably not good...

This weekend I planned to come over to his place for the afternoon, after church (backsliding like a good hypocrite lol)

I got to his town and found out that he is in Austin, about an hour away. His uncle in Austin had a heart attack and he went to go see about him....

Is it reasonable that I'm annoyed that he didn't tell me? He could have called or texted me and canceled, in under a minute.... I'm a bit annoyed that he didn't...

And I'm trying to decide if I should break things with him now or not. Because.... I need to. and I'm annoyed enough about him not even calling to cancel, that I could. But maybe I should wait for a better time... when he isn't worried about his uncle and all...

Idk. I'm starting to let off steam now that I've vented about it.... But the thing is, it seems like I am on the loosing end of things and I'm making all the effort to see him, while he isn't really returning it.... You know?

So I'm not sure what to do.... Whether you have advice or not, please pray for me? :/

 

[Bumble Bee]

Hey hanks to both of you for your kindness.... I haven't been in the thread much but I've been enjoying y'all's company on FB...

So.... After breaking up with the person I really really loved two or three weeks ago, I got into a relationship (if you call it that) with a guy who lives about 20 miles from here. It.... hasn't been a "godly" relationship at all. I'm scared, actually, because a few of the things I did with him last weekend were kinda dangerous.

Anyway: he has money, he often starves for the last week of the month, and his paycheck got delayed.... His car needs repairs and he has no money to repair it. So last weekend I wound up coming to his town, and paying for the date.... Probably not good...

This weekend I planned to come over to his place for the afternoon, after church (backsliding like a good hypocrite lol)

I got to his town and found out that he is in Austin, about an hour away. His uncle in Austin had a heart attack and he went to go see about him....

Is it reasonable that I'm annoyed that he didn't tell me? He could have called or texted me and canceled, in under a minute.... I'm a bit annoyed that he didn't...

And I'm trying to decide if I should break things with him now or not. Because.... I need to. and I'm annoyed enough about him not even calling to cancel, that I could. But maybe I should wait for a better time... when he isn't worried about his uncle and all...

Idk. I'm starting to let off steam now that I've vented about it.... But the thing is, it seems like I am on the loosing end of things and I'm making all the effort to see him, while he isn't really returning it.... You know?

So I'm not sure what to do.... Whether you have advice or not, please pray for me? :/

What I found when I was in a scary relationship was that when I put off ending it, I didn't end it. I kept waiting for a convenient time, and then justifying not breaking it off. If I were you, I would get out now before you end up talking yourself out of it and staying in a bad situation.

 

[MissRowy]

I had the same thing. I was in an abusive relationship and didnt want to end it because I thought he would change. I was wrong and I eventually did break up with him on Valentines Day to make things worse

 

[Wandering Cat Lady]

I think you need to break it off with him for several reasons, the first and most important being that he does not sound stable at all and you don't need that in your life. Above and beyond everything else, it doesn't sound like he's ready for a relationship and no amount of chemistry or desire to be with someone is worth giving that much of yourself, when it means you'll end up losing out. You're worth more than that!

 

[Bumble Bee]

I really, really don't want to write this other letter. The first one went pretty quickly, but this one.... this one is a hard one.

 

[RuthD]

Hi everyone.

 

[Bumble Bee]

Hi Ruth. How are you today?

 

[MissRowy]

Hi Ruth!

 

[James Is Back]

Hey folks

 

[MissRowy]

Hey James!