I really don't know what to say. I came up in the SBC and IBC's - Never ever was stuff like what those two do, tolerated... it was preached against and advised against.
Many of the missions the SBC is all about; are good missions (Lottie Moon for example)..
But since coming back to the states, it was like the SBC did an about face.
When I first became Messianic, it was SBC "documents" (something in one of their magazines) that was given to my extended family and then my parents to explain how I am now in some kind of cult that is against what baptists believe.
Irony of Ironies, there is a "Messianic" Conference with the SBC... many messianic congregations are under the SBC.
But, if we were under the SBC here, there would be absolutely *NO* interaction with the rest of our brothers and sisters within other synagogues. We've been told that by the local orthodox rabbi.
It's bad enough that one of our elders isn't allowed up to the bema and hardly allowed into the door of his old congregation (reform) for family functions (and he's a levy!!

) -due to the bad relations with that rabbi that we have.
I have a love hate relationship with the SBC to be very honest. The last several SBC congregations I have been to have been almost like going to a country club on Saturday to gossip and socialize. It was about comfort.
When I go "home" (where my mom's family lives) I don't go to church with them. I can't. I would end up saying something or walking out; and that would really ruin my standing with everyone; so I just don't go.
It's bad enough I'm not understood and I'm in "a cult" (even if the SBC now accepts and better understands us; the folks in SC have no clue) - but the bigger actions of the conference more than speak for themselves.
"Baptists are more than Southern Baptists, who are more Southern than Baptist, more exclusive than inclusive, more negative than positive, yet Southern Baptists too often define what it means to be Baptist" said Parham, a longtime critic of the Southern Baptist Convention.
"Regrettably, the word Baptist has become synonymous with an anti-everything posture. Anti-women, anti-public education, anti-Catholic, anti-Jewish, anti-Disney. The perception that the Southern Baptist Convention represents all Baptists is one reason we met in Atlanta to plan a celebratory gathering that will reshape public opinion about Baptists."
Exactly.. exactly
