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Jealousy

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Hi guys, I’m having a little problem and was wondering if anyone else has been (or is) in the same situation or has any helpful advice. I’m in a long-term relationship (we've been going out over 18 months) and we hope to get married in a few years when the time is right but often she gets jealous of other females for no particular reason. She has been my only proper girlfriend and she knows that I wouldn’t even look at anyone etc but she still gets jealous. It usually happens when I’ve been talking or something to someone else or something like that, nothing that would usually cause jealousy. I think it is a confidence / self-belief problem because she has quite low self esteem (although that is improving all the time). What can I do to help her, is separating myself from any other females really going to help the matter?
 

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ok..being someone with major low self esteem..i got to tell you..sometimes you should remind her that you love her and wouldnt try to harm her like that..if you already do, i suggest you remind her MORE.. it might help if you do seperate yourself from other girls but then again she might start feeling guilty like she forced you to seperate yourself, so and so .maybe even sit down and have a serious talk ? i had a BIG jealousy issue with ex..i think maybe i had reason to be like that since when ever he would talk to his gal pals when he was with me he would almost completely ignore me!needless to say that relationship didnt last and im with a guy who treats me MUCH better! if your going to even consider marriage, like i said, you should talk about it or its going to cause problems big time when you do tie the knot..thats just IMO though..
 
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