It's over

[eatenbylocusts]

My ex talked to the couple leading our marriage prep classes last night and according to the wife they told him basically that he was wrong for the way he broke up with me and that he should consider trying to work through this issue with me. His email to me today indicated that the relationship was still over. He agreed to meet with me.
He really didn't have a logical reason for his fears, but it almost seems like he has a phobia about illness of any kind. But he did tell me that the feelings that he did have for me are gone now. So even though I don't understand it I have my resolution. He couldn't even offer a hug or a touch of the hand when I cried.
Please pray that my heart will heal soon.

 

[CDN Red Raider]

I agree that he is treating you coldly. I also find it hard to believe that feelings for someone can completely disappear so quickly.
I am praying that God will comfort you in this time, and heal your heart.

 

[eatenbylocusts]

I agree that he is treating you coldly. I also find it hard to believe that feelings for someone can completely disappear so quickly.
I am praying that God will comfort you in this time, and heal your heart.

Maybe he said it to try to make me realize there was no hope for our relationship. Because if he really had no more feelings for me then I don't know he would've taken my emails to a couple from his church last night in order to get counsel from them.

 

[FaithfulServant]

The fact that he took the emails to ask for counsul does show that he cares about your feelings on the matter and wants to make things right. I agree that I would have appreciated a hug or something if I was crying, but maybe he thought it might only make things harder on you. It is good that you two are still talking to each other. We dont' know how God is going to work through this situation, once you get over this hill he very well may have something great planned for you!

I said a prayer for you - may God place his loving arms around you and comfort you.

 

[eatenbylocusts]

Thank you for your prayers.

 

[Mr.Cheese]

Better to find this out now than later.