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I don't agree with the last statement. Marilyn Manson, when asked what he would have said to the killers of Columbine, to prevent it, was, "nothing. I would listen. And that's what no one did."

I think that there is some truth in that. If people are getting bullied, they need someone to talk to about it, and yeah, sometimes people snap, and everyone acts surprised.

Should you be surprised if you tease the neighbor dog, and one day, it bites your leg?
 
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Should you be surprised if you tease the neighbor dog, and one day, it bites your leg?

A dog, no. A human being, yes. Many of us, I'm sure either know people or know of people who were in very abusive situations at home, yet didn't resort to violence. They were messed up in some other way, doubtless, but not in the way that leads to murder. I believer that the common factor amongst those mass and serial murderers is an extreme narcissism.
 
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A dog, no. A human being, yes. Many of us, I'm sure either know people or know of people who were in very abusive situations at home, yet didn't resort to violence.

Not all the dogs you tease will bite you either. The sad fact is that many people are more concerned with cute seal cubs getting smacked around, then timmy next door who is getting the snot beat out of him on a daily basis, well they dont care untill timmy gets a gun and starts blowing people away. Then there is six months of outcry and then life goes back to normal...poor little baby seals.
 
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