Backstory (i'll try to keep it short and to the point):
I met a girl last year, thought she was cute but never had the chance to talk with her much. This year, i see her a bit more and we talk a little bit but nothing too deep. Then, out of nowhere, she asks me if i wanted to make dinner with her one night. This kinda lights things up in my mind and i begin thinking shes into me. I ask my housemates who have known her longer than i have if this is a normal thing for her. They say she never really asked them to do anything like that before. I'm hesitant, though, because i feel like i am the worst at reading people. She later invites me to come over and watch a movie with her and her roommates. Then she starts inviting me to more and more stuff, but nothing 1 on 1 since the dinner. I'm starting to like this girl. Winter break comes and we both go home. We chatted online once at the beginning of break but that was about it until Christmas morning when i sent out a mass text wishing everyone a Merry Christmas. She replies, and then 20 minutes after sends me a message on facebook asking if i wanted to catch a movie with her the next week. Of course i say yes so we go see a movie and we've been in regular contact since.
Issue:
She's older than me by a few years and further along in her schooling than i am. And when i say further, i mean this is her last quarter at our school and then she move back home to start student teaching in the spring. That means shes only going to be in town only for another 10 weeks. We haven't verbalized anything to each other quite yet because we are still just trying to get to know one another, but signs are pointing to her liking me and like i said before, i'm kinda digging her. What i don't get is why would she try to start something with someone when her time is limited? Thats when things start pointing to maybe i was wrong. What do i do? Should i maybe still work on moving forward in our relationship and cross that bridge when we get there or should i just leave her be and just pursue a friendship?
I met a girl last year, thought she was cute but never had the chance to talk with her much. This year, i see her a bit more and we talk a little bit but nothing too deep. Then, out of nowhere, she asks me if i wanted to make dinner with her one night. This kinda lights things up in my mind and i begin thinking shes into me. I ask my housemates who have known her longer than i have if this is a normal thing for her. They say she never really asked them to do anything like that before. I'm hesitant, though, because i feel like i am the worst at reading people. She later invites me to come over and watch a movie with her and her roommates. Then she starts inviting me to more and more stuff, but nothing 1 on 1 since the dinner. I'm starting to like this girl. Winter break comes and we both go home. We chatted online once at the beginning of break but that was about it until Christmas morning when i sent out a mass text wishing everyone a Merry Christmas. She replies, and then 20 minutes after sends me a message on facebook asking if i wanted to catch a movie with her the next week. Of course i say yes so we go see a movie and we've been in regular contact since.
Issue:
She's older than me by a few years and further along in her schooling than i am. And when i say further, i mean this is her last quarter at our school and then she move back home to start student teaching in the spring. That means shes only going to be in town only for another 10 weeks. We haven't verbalized anything to each other quite yet because we are still just trying to get to know one another, but signs are pointing to her liking me and like i said before, i'm kinda digging her. What i don't get is why would she try to start something with someone when her time is limited? Thats when things start pointing to maybe i was wrong. What do i do? Should i maybe still work on moving forward in our relationship and cross that bridge when we get there or should i just leave her be and just pursue a friendship?
