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Masturbation is theft, eh? Gee, I knew I shouldn't have stolen that [bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse] when I was 13. I should have saved it for my wife. There are only so many [bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse], you know...Don't steal from your rightful future mate what is rightfully hers.
No I read your message. What I'm saying is, the Holy Spirit has convicted me in my heart that masturbation is absolutely a sin, no question about it. He has revealed to me a couple of reasons why as well. It's sex outside of marriage and is always the result of lustful thoughts. Now as you've said you can do it without thinking lustful thoughts, but you have to really try right? Because it's so easy to slip into that behavior while masturbating. The temptation to think lustful thoughts while masturbating is too great to risk that behavior.Hey if you're gonna espouse false doctrine based upon what the Holy Spirit has revealed to me, you can bet your bottom dollar I'm gonna call you on it and there's nothing wrong with that.
Huh???
Oh I don't know if you read my other message, I realized Holo was mocking a bit too. Of course my parents don't know that im talking to adults about this topic. My friends don't have the answer. The Bible doens't say for sure. And im not sure if the Holy Spirit is convicting me. And I definitely would NOT ask my parents this question. Can you say embarassing?
I'm not talking down to you, I'm talking to you as I would talk to an adult. If you need to be handled with kid gloves, tell me so and I will treat you as a child.Im just curious about the answer to this topic, but I don't get any answers and I get talked down to by floating axe and zecryphon. Maybe I shouldn't have put up my age.
"And they really shouldn't. The question is wrong from the outset, because it assumes that you are wicked and don't have a clue morally (and indeed a lot of churches do treat their members as if they're completely unable to make good moral judgments)."And they really shouldn't. The question is wrong from the outset, because it assumes that you are wicked and don't have a clue morally (and indeed a lot of churches do treat their members as if they're completely unable to make good moral judgments). It also takes the focus away from what Christ has already done, and IS doing, which is sufficient, and focuses on ME. But we're not called to look on ourselves, but on HIM.
To put it another way; would Jesus ask what Jesus would do?
I've seen people suffer tremendously under the WWJD regime.
I haven't really thought of that. It makes no difference to me.
What does masturbation have to do with that?
Actually, we agree on that. We were sinners by nature.Holo, read the Bible. Before coming to Christ you are a child of wrath, a child of the devil. You are wicked.
Yes, but it places the responsibility of God's honour on MAN. It implies that YOU must provide holiness, that YOU must try and do good enough for God, when in reality, it's about GOD doing HIS works through you.It actually puts the focus on God and what God has done. It's all about the glorification of God. All of it.
But what He did was sufficient. And it's only when HE is allowed to express Himself through us that HIS work is really done.No, because Jesus did not live for Himself. The question we need to ask is, as I've already said, what DID Jesus do. Look at what He did and not what we think He would do based upon our limited understanding of Him.
I've seen them suffer because WWJD becomes a burden even greater than the Law was - the law was the ministry of death, and WWJD is even worse.Me too, because it tempts us to speculate on what Jesus would do, and leads us to believe that our personal truth is THE truth.
If so, he would also walk on His hands, sleep upside down, dance cha-cha-cha in the morning and baked bread...Well think about it. If masturbation really isn't a sinful behavior, Jesus would have done it right?
Yes. Why should we assume anything at all? Why should it make a difference? A lot of christians abstain from alcohol even though Jesus drank wine. That's not a problem. Jesus' personal habits don't determine ours.Why should we assume He didn't? See where questioning like this can lead?
OK, so for you, masturbation conflicts with God's will. As you mentioned elsewhere, for you it's tightly tied together with lustful thoughts etc.Because, masturbation to me seems to focus on what I want for myself, as opposed to what God has expressed He wants for me.
Amen, Amisk! I'm not worried about whether or not masturbation is a sin. I know it is, case closed for me.The answer to this question ought to be clear. When Jesus said, "But I say unto you, That whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart." Matthew 5:28
No man begins the act of masturbation without mentally committing adultery in his mind or heart. After all, every act of masturbation begins with lust. Therefore the scripture answers the question without using the word masturbation. The act of adultery and the act of masturbation both begin with giving into lust. Lust itself is defined as "seeking unrestrained self gratification."
If we are continually worrying about whether masturbation is sin or not, as Christians we need only read the scriptures we will find our answer is there. As long as we continue the sin of masturbation we will wrestle with the guilt of our conscience. Like the sin of adultery itself, one must come to the Lord seeking forgiveness and then refrain from the act in order to be free of the guilt of mind and heart.
Usually if our conscience questions our right to enter into an act or mentally dwell on a subject, then we can be fairly sure that we are being tempted to sin.
If you are embarrassed by your behaviour and can't discuss this with parents, then your conscience is alive and well. Heed that. It is God's provision to you for alerting you to sin. Ignore it and short-circuit that warning system. God will then leave you to your own devices, and you will have successfully cut God out of an area of your life that He wants you to give over to His control. He wants all of us, not just some of us.
The desires that cause you to do such things needs to be under control, and God can give you that control. Sexual gratification is achieved through intimacy with a woman you are married to only. Don't steal from your rightful future mate what is rightfully hers.
No I read your message. What I'm saying is, the Holy Spirit has convicted me in my heart that masturbation is absolutely a sin, no question about it. He has revealed to me a couple of reasons why as well. It's sex outside of marriage and is always the result of lustful thoughts. Now as you've said you can do it without thinking lustful thoughts, but you have to really try right? Because it's so easy to slip into that behavior while masturbating. The temptation to think lustful thoughts while masturbating is too great to risk that behavior.
Since we are to guard ourselves against sin as best we can, I think it is wise to avoid behaviors that lead us down the slippery slope of personal justification of sin. When people come along and say God doesn't care if you touch, that bothers me, because I see that for what it is, a personal justification of sinful behavior. So when I see people saying things like that, I call them on it and ask them questions and defend my point of view as to why I believe masturbation is sinful. What do I get for my efforts? I get to be called judgmental, arrogant and ignorant. But guess what? I don't care. Because it's not my own personal truth I'm sharing here, but what the Spirit has convicted me of, that I'm sharing here.
sorry but, I don't see masturbation as stealing from my future "mate". Sex and masturbation are 2 different things. And there are many different things that I would not talk to my parents about. Not just masturbation. I also wouldn't talk to them about sex or drugs.
Honestly, I don't have to try hard at all. I really don't even come close to lusting at all. I don't have any bad images in my mind or anything. Ill try to quit doing it, but the burning sexual desire becomes to great. So I see masturbation as a way out, and I honestly have not even a sinful thought. Maybe God provided me this way out? Im not sure.
Masturbation can also keep you away from committing fornication or adultery. After it is done it takes your sexual desire away for quite a while and therefore you won't be tempted to commit any of those sins.
The average male masterbaits at least once a day.
Telling someone they can't masterbait is attempting to controll someone elses life, and make them feel guilty for doing something that isn't wrong in any way.
The only somewhat logical reason that its a sin is, Because they think its lust, and lust is a sin.
But no man has lived his life without feeling lust.
I am now wondering if the behaviour does some brain damage. You people can't even spell it.
"Honestly, I don't have to try hard at all. I really don't even come close to lusting at all. I don't have any bad images in my mind or anything. Ill try to quit doing it, but the burning sexual desire becomes to great."Honestly, I don't have to try hard at all. I really don't even come close to lusting at all. I don't have any bad images in my mind or anything. Ill try to quit doing it, but the burning sexual desire becomes to great. So I see masturbation as a way out, and I honestly have not even a sinful thought. Maybe God provided me this way out? Im not sure.
Masturbation can also keep you away from committing fornication or adultery. After it is done it takes your sexual desire away for quite a while and therefore you won't be tempted to commit any of those sins.
No one ever taught me how to touch... Is there a class somewhere???As I see it. touching yourself is not a natural function.
touching yourself is something which is taught.
It is taught by folks who have also been taught, by folks whose have indulged in the sexual experience outside of the marriage bond. Thereby becoming obsessed with the desire to gratify such, no matter the cost.
The bible advises "it is better to marry than burn" So get married if you touch would be the scriptural injunction. Marry before you violate an innocent individual. Causing trauma and distress.
touching yourself is a sin, and 'marry' would be the biblical answer.
Scripture talks of some "neighing' like the stallion, after a neighbours wife. God forbid. Perish the thought, the great Apostle would say.
Such passion has to be controlled. Well this would be the biblical answer.
No.So when you sin, it's God who is causing you to sin?
Not only does it bring about knowledge of sin, it arouses sin, and then it accuses and blames you. The devil was disarmed at the cross. His weapon? The law.Of course you're going to be caught when you sin, that's what the law does, it brings about the knowledge of sin.
No, I don't. Why do you think I'm doing that?When you sin, and I know you still do, you just keep going and turn a blind eye to it and convince yourself you didn't do it, because you now have Christ.
The commandment is the power of sin. When the commandment came, sin sprang to life. When you impose the law on people, sin will thrive, because sin takes advantage of the commandment. Thus, the commandment, which IS good, turns out to bring DEATH.Wrong, sin becomes evident.
Yes, and it is FOR sinners. Not for righteous people.That's what the law is Holo, a mirror that reveals who you truly are. It exposes your sin. The reason people don't want anything to do with the law is because it exposes them as sinners and they can't handle that revelation.
Yes, and so when you keep insisting that I eat of the tree of knowledge of good and evil, I'm going to keep turning you down.Do not eat of that tree leaps to mind.
Yes they were. Why were they righteous? Because there were nobody to accuse them.So Adam and Eve were not righteous or perfect when God created them before they sinned against Him by violating His rule?
And everything I did will be burned up. The things GOD did, will stand. Let's say you manage to keep part of the law. When you die, that won't be God's work. It will be yours. And your righteousness will be like filthy rags. And the law does insist that you achieve your own righteousness. But Christ said to seek GOD's righteousness. And God's righteousness was revealed apart from the law. God's righteousness is Christ.Yes you will and the penalty for your sin will be set aside, because Christ paid that at the cross. You will also give a testimony to God of all your actions and thoughts.
Maybe not, but WE do. We die and are born again. What was IMPOSSIBLE for the law, GOD DID. He has already done it. God has done it, and He has done it well. Why should I be fiddling with some other old futile way to do it all over?Alot of the Mosaic law was given to Israel, but God's moral law is for everyone. It is how He declared all people are to live. It's His standard of what is acceptable behavior to Him. God is the same yeseterday, today and tomorrow. His moral standards do not change.
Because the law has over 600 commandments.How do you know?
Where is YOUR proof that he DID need the law? Pauls mentions it specifically - the law came several hundred years AFTER Abraham. Paul says Abraham didn't have the law. Do you think he would've been better off WITH the law? Did he lack anything, that the law would've provided?"Abraham didn't need the law as a guide to anything. Why should I?"
Where's your proof of that? Where is your proof that Abraham didn't need the law?
There wasn't chaos in Eden. After they ate from the law tree, there was chaos though.Without rules, there is chaos.
And you don't know that without the law? Come on, it's not like you're wondering if perhaps theft would actually be pleasing to God or not? Do you need to be told to stay faithful or not to murder people or worhsip other gods?I need to know what is acceptable and pleasing behavior in God's sight so I can live according to His standard, not my own.
The law IS a bunch of rules. That's sort of the definition of a law.You are so hung up on seeing the law as a bunch of rules that you can't get past that.
No of course I don't. Jesus IS the standard. And a much better standard than the law, I might add.You will ask the person "what can I do for you?" That's natural. With the new nature, God gives us the desire to live a life that is pleasing for Him. He has given us His standard of what is appropriate and what is not, and you want to ignore that standard because you have been born-again.
Well yes, I'll rather have the ministry of life than the ministry of death.You want only one gift from God and not the other.
And He has upheld the law. Christ DID that. He took our place, and we got His.He is an angry judge and He must uphold the law.
No.The Bible is silent, therefore she must not have sinned again. Because if she had, surely the Bible would have told us. Isn't that how you think?
No, no. Being sorry, and showing it, may be part of your conversion, but grace is GRACE - in other words free. It doesn't cost you a particular emotion or that you demonstrate that you feel like this and that. God knows your heart already. And He paid the price while you were still a sinner. It's not like He's first going to die for you before you were even born, and then start charging for it.Those are the people that receive grace. The ones who show they are sorry for what they have done.
Thankfully, God's devotion to US is greater than His devotion to the law.If a human judge has that kind of devotion to the law and what it demands, how much more devotion to the law must your Father in Heaven have?
Well I can't say I don't like it, but that's irrelevant. My experience is that God has never judged me. Instead, He judged Christ. It's my experience, and it's also what the bible says. God is LOVE. Love is God's nature. He may HAVE justice, but He IS love. And all His anger was laid on Jesus.There you go again, deciding which attributes God has more of, based upon what you like.
True.God is only your Father in Heaven after you have been reconciled back to Him through Christ, not before.
The punishment for all the sin in the whole world was laid on Him. But only those who believe and accept His grace, receives it. He doesn't sell it, and He doesn't force it.The punishment was laid upon Him for those who call upon His name to be saved. But if you don't repent you don't repent of your sins and show that you are sorry for your heinous crimes against God you will not receive
the gift of salvation.
No, but we did.So Jesus, who is God, then changed after the cross?
Yes. In the old covenant, if you wanted to be righteous, you would have to live a perfect life. Nobody did, thogh, and God bore over with their sins and credited their faith as righteousness. On the cross, however, all sin was PAID for. The law had been fulfilled. No more need for it. The law has served it's purpose. It is old, it has been replaced.Before the cross you had to pick up your cross and follow after Him, doing all He commanded, but after the cross, you don't?
Indeed.Remember what James said, faith without works is dead.
Can you please God? Can you offer Him something He needs? Give Him something He didn't have? Can you, a man, make God say "well done"? And guided by the law, even?But hey, you've got your "get out of hell free card", why should you have to do anything to please God, right?
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