is it wrong to want to touch/grab/lift your gf in a pool?
I agree with this. If you don't feel right doing something then don't do it. However, just because you don't feel right doing something does not mean its a sin. In this case, your desire is not sinful. It is a perfectly natural desire.Umm...why would it be? Why does automatically being in water make something worse? If you don't feel right doing something then don't do it.
I will admit that being around my fiance when she is in a swimsuit makes keeping my hands to myself just a wee bit harder...
Second your line of thought.We can see.. with a child for every year of your life the evidence says it all.
Seriously now.. I think watch your motives. Are you touching her to cop a feel or are you being genuinely intimate and playing and assisting her in the pool?
Only you know your motives. Use that information to judge whether your behaviour in the pool is right or wrong. Because we can admit that being scantily clad, and bouncing around in water is sensual.
So we DO have to be extra careful about our behaviour and the motives behind our behaviour, when we're in these situations.