Things that have happened to me from one particular friend:
Everyone went to get coffee at camp from church and they didnt bother inviting me.
Often did stuff without telling me or inviting me.
Would wear coordinating outfits to events and not ask if I would join in.
Sometimes didnt bother inviting me to things because I lived too far away, even though I pretty much went every time I was invited. Refused to travel the distance to my house, except for on my birthday, even though it was only a ten minute drive.
Told me that I was the person they invited when no one else was available.
Saw the only pair of fancy underwear I had in the laundry and ran around the deck in it (a male) over his clothes. Everyone was laughing. I was mortified and really embarrassed. Keep in mind that I am a plus sized girl.
Witnessed two friends planning a trip together to celebrate being friends for ten years. I had been friends with one of them for twenty years and they never wanted to commemorate anything with me.
Claimed best (off ground) beds on a Missions trip. Didnt bother sharing or swopping around during the three weeks.
Wouldnt share a room with me in final resort, would rather share with mean girl who had been a bully during the trip.
Took multibox to camp. Claimed powerpoint by wall. Shared with other girls, didnt even offer to share it with me.
This has troubled me for years. It makes me wonder if they actually like me. Help?
Everyone went to get coffee at camp from church and they didnt bother inviting me.
Often did stuff without telling me or inviting me.
Would wear coordinating outfits to events and not ask if I would join in.
Sometimes didnt bother inviting me to things because I lived too far away, even though I pretty much went every time I was invited. Refused to travel the distance to my house, except for on my birthday, even though it was only a ten minute drive.
Told me that I was the person they invited when no one else was available.
Saw the only pair of fancy underwear I had in the laundry and ran around the deck in it (a male) over his clothes. Everyone was laughing. I was mortified and really embarrassed. Keep in mind that I am a plus sized girl.
Witnessed two friends planning a trip together to celebrate being friends for ten years. I had been friends with one of them for twenty years and they never wanted to commemorate anything with me.
Claimed best (off ground) beds on a Missions trip. Didnt bother sharing or swopping around during the three weeks.
Wouldnt share a room with me in final resort, would rather share with mean girl who had been a bully during the trip.
Took multibox to camp. Claimed powerpoint by wall. Shared with other girls, didnt even offer to share it with me.
This has troubled me for years. It makes me wonder if they actually like me. Help?
