There's actually two different types of tongues.
1) The personal edification of tongues. That's between you and God only, not for public proclaimation. Anyone can receive it. All you have to do is ask God. Go to a room, shut the door, get down on your knees and pray. Ask God to baptise you in the Holy Spirit. Then, in faith, speak out whatever comes to your head. It may sound like garbage but press on. The devil does NOT want you to speak in tongues. He'll fill your head with all sorts of nonsense, saying that its not the real tongues, you're just speaking rubbish or he'll say that it is not the true tongues so you better stop. BUT, don't fall for his trap.
2) The Gift of tongues. This is for public proclamation and an interpreter is needed. Not all people have this gift.
Below, I'll post a brief outline on what my pastor preached on tongues. It is VERY important, esp in these times. If you haven't received it, I strongly urge you to ask God for it.
Okay, we're now living in very exciting times, where Jesus said there will be restoration. Acts 3: 20-21 20and that he may send the Christ, who has been appointed for you--even Jesus. 21He must remain in heaven until the time comes for God to restore everything, as he promised long ago through his holy prophets.
God is restoring things to the Church. And when God restores, He restores more than before.
Psalms 84:11 the LORD will give grace and glory: no good thing will he withhold from them that walk uprightly.
Grace has came already => the grace message. It is the foundation. Now, the time has come for the glory to come. Speaking in tongues is the link from grace to glory.
There are two different types of tongues. People normally get this two mixed up.
1) First, there is the Gift of Tongues => From God to Man, for public exultation. It is normally accompanied by someone who can interprete.
2) Second, there is the private edification of tongues => from Man to God. Man praying to God.
1st Corinthians 1:14I thank God that I baptized none of you except Crispus and Gaius, 15lest anyone should say that I had baptized in my own name.16 And I baptized also the household of Stephanas: besides, I know not whether I baptized any other.
17 For Christ sent me not to baptize, but to preach the gospel: not with wisdom of words, lest the cross of Christ should be made of none effect.
18 For the preaching of the cross is to them that perish foolishness; but unto us which are saved it is the power of God.
No one understands the prayer in tongues, so there is a proper time to speak in tongues. Btw, a note, look in the New Testament. There is always reference to 'the prayer'. This 'the prayer' refers to tongues, the personal edification of tongues. One example is in Acts. When Herod got hold of James, senior pastor of the local church, he killed him. When Herod saw that the Jews were happy, he took Peter as well. But the church woke up and prayed The Prayer, and Peter got supernaturally saved by the angel.
Thus, God cannot work unless someone in the world prays.
But have you ever encountered a time where you are at a lost, when you don't know how to pray at all? This is when the prayer of tongues come in. You are speaking in God's language, and the Holy Spirit is praying for you through you. Get what I mean? The Holy Spirit works TOGETHER with us. We cannot like do everything ourselves, or to the other extreme, leave everything to God. He is NOT our servant. So when we pray in tongues, we are praying with the Holy Spirit who helps us pray because we don't know what to pray at all. Our knowledge is very limited.
Joshua 1:8 This book of the law shall not depart out of thy mouth; but thou shalt meditate therein day and night, that thou mayest observe to do according to all that is written therein: for then thou shalt make thy way prosperous, and then thou shalt have good success.
What is law in the Old is spirit in the New. When you pray in tongues, you are praying God's good and perfect plan into your life.
Romans 8: 26-28 Likewise the Spirit also helpeth our infirmities: for we know not what we should pray for as we ought: but the Spirit itself maketh intercession for us with groanings which cannot be uttered.
27 And he that searcheth the hearts knoweth what is the mind of the Spirit, because he maketh intercession for the saints according to the will of God.
28 And we know that all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to his purpose.
Oral Roberts had an open vision => a visitation from God. Jesus told him to tell churches to pray more in TONGUES.
We are made of 3 parts: Body, Soul and Spirit.
Body: our 'house'
Soul: Thoughts, feelings, emotions, will, mind
This is not the real you. Our soul needs to be renewed by God.
Spirit: This is the one that is borned again, where God dwells.
When we pray in normal language, our mind knows so we're praying with the mind. But when we pray in tongues, we're praying in the spirit!!!
There is so much more to share, but this I feel is the basic. So start praying in tongues!!! If you haven't received this gift, pray and ask God to baptise you with the Holy Spirit. Then believe and by faith, start to speak out. You need to take the first step and then the Holy Spirit will pour forth from you. You can pray in tongues while watching tv, cooking, etc coz you're not using your mind! Its God praying for you through you!!!!
Initially, you may feel uneasy and the devil would put thoughts, saying 'No, you're just talking garbage. Stop it, its making you look like a fool. You haven't received tongues yet.' But no, its a LIE. The devil does NOT want you to speak in tongues so he'll try to stop you. Like what he did to me. He deluded me into thinking that I was speaking rubbish so I just shelved it away for 8 years (I received it when I was 8). Its only now that I'm beginning to speak and praise God, I'm getting addicted to it =P
Also, statistics have proven that praying in tongues lowers stress levels and increases immunity system, but I'll not go into that.
Oh yes, your mind will 'fight' against you when you speak in tongues coz for once, your mind is not in control. Our mind is 'proud' as it wants to know everything, what's going on. But press on, and your mind will be slowly renewed by God.
Don't fear, what God has given us can only be good. Just pray and pray and pray as much as you can. And soon you'll see God's miracle =)