Is She Interested?

[ZACTAK]

Hey everyone. This question is more directed to the Christian women, but men are more than welcome to answer as well. I am wondering if you guys could tell me signs women give off to a guy when they are interested in him. There is a girl that i am interested in dating, and I think she has given me signs to show she might be interested as well, but I am not completely sure. Thanks and God bless.

 

[adora]

If she makes lots of excuses to talk to you and goes out of her way to come up to you, that's a good sign. Also if she takes any excuse to touch you - put her hand on your hand, your arm, shoulder, etc... you know what I mean?

I hope things work out for you!

 

[koban4max]

Go after her, partner....

If i was a girl..lol...I would giggle alot...front of you..."tee hee."

 

[ZACTAK]

If she makes lots of excuses to talk to you and goes out of her way to come up to you, that's a good sign. Also if she takes any excuse to touch you - put her hand on your hand, your arm, shoulder, etc... you know what I mean?

I hope things work out for you!

Well, we have never met. We have talked online since May, and we just recently started talking on the phone. We spent 2 hours on the phone the other night, 3 hours last night, and she called after I woke up today because my grandpa is in the hospital, and she wanted to know how he was doing. We didn't find out about each other through a dating service or anything like that, but we met through Xanga... we go to the same school, and have agreed to meet when we are both down at school in about three weeks.

 

[findinghope06]

smiling. usually when im interested in a guy, i look him directly in his eyes when we talk and smile a lot! and yes we do like to talk to you too. trust me, you can really really tell when girls arent interested.

good luck and ill be praying for you.

 

[the_man]

Well, we have never met. We have talked online since May, and we just recently started talking on the phone. We spent 2 hours on the phone the other night, 3 hours last night, and she called after I woke up today because my grandpa is in the hospital, and she wanted to know how he was doing. We didn't find out about each other through a dating service or anything like that, but we met through Xanga... we go to the same school, and ahve agreed to meet when we are both down at school.

If she ruled out a romantic possibility, should wouldn't spend that much time in phone conversation. When you see her in person, you will be able to tell if she likes you or not.

 

[adora]

Well, we have never met. We have talked online since May, and we just recently started talking on the phone. We spent 2 hours on the phone the other night, 3 hours last night, and she called after I woke up today because my grandpa is in the hospital, and she wanted to know how he was doing. We didn't find out about each other through a dating service or anything like that, but we met through Xanga... we go to the same school, and have agreed to meet when we are both down at school in about three weeks.

To me, it sounds as if she is definitely interested. Things could be tricky when you first meet, but I think that the fact that you already know each other will make things a lot easier.

I hope your grandpa is doing ok.

 

[beetlequeendiva]

oooh it sounds good, I'm sure it'll be easier once you all have met!!! I assume she is why you haven't emailed me back yet LOL j/k!!! Hope you're doing alright, good luck with this girl, I'm praying for you. Hope your Grandpa is doing alright!!

 

[roseglass6370]

Hmm...it sounds like she likes you

When I like a guy I usually:
-talk to him whenever I can (a.k.a. online, whenever he's with me, phone, etc.)
-am very nice to him and stand up for him when someone insults him
-and in person usually touch him on the arm, etc when we are talking

best wishes and I also hope your grandpa gets better soon.

 

[Alejandro]

She sounds like a sweet and passionate girl!!!

But be careful, she could be interested in a friendship.. or anything beyond.. I think it's time for you two to meet and the see if anything happends. don't go beyond friendship now.

And congrats lucky guy!

 

[Kusanagi]

I myself dont know how to tell if a girl is interested in me, much less tell if she is single or not. Again, I just gotten out my loner stage.

 

[paulewog]

Curious. What does it matter?

I was not aware that one had to "like" someone before one got to know the person.

 

[winglovesall]

Great advice from all my friends that have posted something --

I think -- she would smile if she is interested. She would try to be open to you and the way she looks could be a little nervous ! But I really don't know.

 

[crimsonxbeauty]

I'm in the same situation... I know this guy... friend of a friend... and he's super sweet and I love talking to him... but I feel like I'm pestering him. If she laughs a lot on the phone... and jokes around giving you a hard time about everything... and if she likes to make you laugh thats a good sign. The fact that she calls you so much is a good thing... it means she feels like she can trust you. and doesn't feel like she's buggin you.

 

[Sketcher]

There is no rule of thumb for female interest. She probably likes you, but not nescesarily in that way, it could be just as a friend. Some girls will give signals that say "date me" but they won't mean a thing. It's just how they socialize.

 

[Highland Watchman]

There is no rule of thumb for female interest. She probably likes you, but not nescesarily in that way, it could be just as a friend. Some girls will give signals that say "date me" but they won't mean a thing. It's just how they socialize.

Precisely why caution, discernment, and lots of observation skills are always needed.

 

[koban4max]

why you don't electracute youself and be like mel gibbson..from one movie "what women wants." You'll have an easier time knowing what kind of signal they are sending.

 

[femmejolie]

Besides the laughing and touching your arm look for her to cook or bake for you. Also, she may start doing some research on the things you like (sports teams, etc.). My advice would be to approach the situation like any other friendship when you get back to school. Nothing can kill a budding romance faster than too much pressure.

 

[JPPT1974]

Besides the laughing and touching your arm look for her to cook or bake for you. Also, she may start doing some research on the things you like (sports teams, etc.). My advice would be to approach the situation like any other friendship when you get back to school. Nothing can kill a budding romance faster than too much pressure.

Yeah just be friends because that's more important than anything else.

 

[winglovesall]

Yeah -- I would agree.

Just be careful what you say to her and don't be too obsessed with her -- that can sometimes hurt -- have patience!